today my girlfriend broke up with me via telephone
and she said she couldn't handle a summer relationship because we were both gone and had no time to see the other but could still talk and stuff.
she said she would be open to getting together again come august and school.
so how do i ensure that this doesn't become a nasty split and that we are still interested in one another come fall?How should i go about getting my ex back?
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Friday, August 20, 2010
What are the best things to say, to get an ex back?
Weeeell basically i had a lovely girlfriend a while ago, but we broke up, but since then we have been chatting all the time, (every night) for ages and ages, and now i just want to know how i can sway her away from the whole 'friends' thing more to the more popular 'boyfriend' thing..
Or actually if thats just not possible than let me know. I'm gonna call a spade a spade, and thats that i quite clearly still love her, and i think she knows that, and although we have so much fun, i think she doesn't like me in that way... Pathetic i know, to be honest i never thought i would find myself in a situation like this... but oh well here i am.. and can anyone help me with anything good to say...
Its kinda a big deal to me... thanks so muchWhat are the best things to say, to get an ex back?
Shes keeping you close for a reason. And if she still loves you, you'll know, BUT if it's just a comfort thing, than she's being selfish. And you shouldnt hurt yourself like that.
Breaking up is so hard, it sucks, but either you try to win her back before someone else steals her away from you, tell her how much she means to you, remind her of all the good times you had, make her want you too.
OR if thats not what she wants, forget about her. You need to let her go, otherwise it'll hurt to much being ';the friend'; who watches her with other guys.
The decisions up to you, but play it by ear, if you cant read her, TALK TO HER.. and go from there.
Good luck :):):)What are the best things to say, to get an ex back?
Honestly, it depends a lot on why you broke up in the first place. If you hurt her, she may not be as receptive to another go around with you...if she broke up with you or hurt you in some way then you might question how much she actually cares for your feelings.
But the only wrong thing is do nothing. Spend some time together and be honest with her...the worst she can do is say no, and then you can start to move on.
Apart from saying `I still love you you know` and `If I had my way, we`d get back together tomorrow`....I can`t see what else you can do.
But these two remarks would give her an opening, and her response would give you a clue if there is a chance.
If she doesn`t want to get back with you, she will just give that little non-commital laugh, that girls do when they don`t want to say anything.
just tell her ,you had a dream she was a nun you were a monk. Simply meaning that if you guys can't be together then you can't be with anyone else.
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Or actually if thats just not possible than let me know. I'm gonna call a spade a spade, and thats that i quite clearly still love her, and i think she knows that, and although we have so much fun, i think she doesn't like me in that way... Pathetic i know, to be honest i never thought i would find myself in a situation like this... but oh well here i am.. and can anyone help me with anything good to say...
Its kinda a big deal to me... thanks so muchWhat are the best things to say, to get an ex back?
Shes keeping you close for a reason. And if she still loves you, you'll know, BUT if it's just a comfort thing, than she's being selfish. And you shouldnt hurt yourself like that.
Breaking up is so hard, it sucks, but either you try to win her back before someone else steals her away from you, tell her how much she means to you, remind her of all the good times you had, make her want you too.
OR if thats not what she wants, forget about her. You need to let her go, otherwise it'll hurt to much being ';the friend'; who watches her with other guys.
The decisions up to you, but play it by ear, if you cant read her, TALK TO HER.. and go from there.
Good luck :):):)What are the best things to say, to get an ex back?
Honestly, it depends a lot on why you broke up in the first place. If you hurt her, she may not be as receptive to another go around with you...if she broke up with you or hurt you in some way then you might question how much she actually cares for your feelings.
But the only wrong thing is do nothing. Spend some time together and be honest with her...the worst she can do is say no, and then you can start to move on.
Apart from saying `I still love you you know` and `If I had my way, we`d get back together tomorrow`....I can`t see what else you can do.
But these two remarks would give her an opening, and her response would give you a clue if there is a chance.
If she doesn`t want to get back with you, she will just give that little non-commital laugh, that girls do when they don`t want to say anything.
just tell her ,you had a dream she was a nun you were a monk. Simply meaning that if you guys can't be together then you can't be with anyone else.
can i please have the past back pretty please
How well am I doing to win my ex back?
If she is going on dates with other guys? she said she would wait. Would you consider that to be a slap in the face? She told me to get my life in order and she would be waiting. Im getting my life in order, does it look like she is waiting?How well am I doing to win my ex back?
Are you sure you have the whole story? Maybe it's not as black and white as you think it is, I am doing the same thing to my bf, he needs to grow up some before I can be with him, and I really need to talk to someone, but every time I make plans, the person I make plans with turns it around and makes it a date. I try to be straight up with him so it doesn't hurt him if he sees the guys being unusual toward me, but I'm not acting on anything, my heart belongs to him and I just need him to show me that he wants to be with me, actually, my whole situation is complicated. But I keep telling him, my heart is his.How well am I doing to win my ex back?
then you shouldn't wait either. date other people duh. she isn't waiting. She seems like time is precious to her. rofl.
Are you sure you have the whole story? Maybe it's not as black and white as you think it is, I am doing the same thing to my bf, he needs to grow up some before I can be with him, and I really need to talk to someone, but every time I make plans, the person I make plans with turns it around and makes it a date. I try to be straight up with him so it doesn't hurt him if he sees the guys being unusual toward me, but I'm not acting on anything, my heart belongs to him and I just need him to show me that he wants to be with me, actually, my whole situation is complicated. But I keep telling him, my heart is his.How well am I doing to win my ex back?
then you shouldn't wait either. date other people duh. she isn't waiting. She seems like time is precious to her. rofl.
How can I get my ex back?
My ex boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago, and I'm really sad and depressed and I have no idea what to do. We have been going out for 10 months. He said that I am too attached and immature and that we would be better off as friends.
I don't know how to act that will make him want me back.
I can't eat very much or sleep well.
Please helpHow can I get my ex back?
It sounds to me as though he felt you were smothering him. I think this is actually a smart break up. You need some time to learn how to deal with this and learn to do things alone, and have some time to mature.
If you're asking how to get him back it tells me you don't even understand why he broke up with you. Until you understand this, you really shouldn't be going out with any boy.
I don't know how to act that will make him want me back.
I can't eat very much or sleep well.
Please helpHow can I get my ex back?
It sounds to me as though he felt you were smothering him. I think this is actually a smart break up. You need some time to learn how to deal with this and learn to do things alone, and have some time to mature.
If you're asking how to get him back it tells me you don't even understand why he broke up with you. Until you understand this, you really shouldn't be going out with any boy.
Do you think it is possible to get back an ex boyfriend?
My boyfriend broke up with me because we were in a semi long distance relationship (which he couldnt handle) and because I wasnt ready for a serious relationship. I am now ready for a serious relationship and am going to be in his area quite a lot. I've tried talking to him and he says he still likes me a lot and is attracted to me, but he doesnt know if he can get back together with me. How do you convince him he should?Do you think it is possible to get back an ex boyfriend?
You are barking up the wrong tree.Do you think it is possible to get back an ex boyfriend?
Yes it is possible..........If u still love ue ex boyfriend..........right?
Sweetheart, everything happens for a reason. If it is meant for you to be together, it will happen. Dont press the subject, give it some time. Good luck
You shouldn't have to convince him...Maybe he likes you but just doesn't want to be with you anymore and just doesn't want to come out and tell you that.
juss kiss him
U tell him that u love him and ask him to plz get back 2gether with u.
Well u should explain to him how u feel and that your desperately in love with him
Don't call him. Don't write him. Don't email him. And when he calls you ... tell him you have a boyfriend.
You'll be surprised how he will perk up with interest.electric bicycle Small Bee homeowner loans
You are barking up the wrong tree.Do you think it is possible to get back an ex boyfriend?
Yes it is possible..........If u still love ue ex boyfriend..........right?
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Sweetheart, everything happens for a reason. If it is meant for you to be together, it will happen. Dont press the subject, give it some time. Good luck
You shouldn't have to convince him...Maybe he likes you but just doesn't want to be with you anymore and just doesn't want to come out and tell you that.
juss kiss him
U tell him that u love him and ask him to plz get back 2gether with u.
Well u should explain to him how u feel and that your desperately in love with him
Don't call him. Don't write him. Don't email him. And when he calls you ... tell him you have a boyfriend.
You'll be surprised how he will perk up with interest.
How can i get my ex back?
We broke up Yesterday, She says she doesn't like me the same, we dated for a year and a month, We fell in love with eachother and then BAM she doesn't want me anymore. I love her to death and i would do pretty much anything to get her back. Do you got any ideas of how i can get her back? I will try anything once. I need lots of ideas. I need some romantic ideas as well ppl. Thanks.How can i get my ex back?
Find another girlfriend right away and make sure she knows it. Then she will wonder why your not pondering over her like a little kitten, her brain will start turning, trust me she will come running. As far as the romantic stuff, forget it.
After they dump you they think they hold all the cards. You can hold a few of your own. Good luck
By the way if she still doesn't come back be glade you were not married and she decided to walk.
There are lots of beautiful women to choose from out there. enjoyHow can i get my ex back?
I agree you don't want to scare here away, give her space and try not to think and sit around go out with your buddys and make sure you are having a good time and keeping busy. You need to get your power back. If you guys broke over something not that serious, you can fix it if you do it right. Here an article that might help!
Try to get in touch with her female friends and let her know this. She will get jealous of you and will come back to u.Plan ur ways and execute it such that u can again get on with the relation. people have succeeded and with the right approach u might succeed too.
There are some resources like this which can help u get back ur ex.
http://www.get-your-ex-back.info
Ask her why she doesn't want you anymore
try think of what she wants and what she likes
take her places she love most, give her presents she wants
be romantic to her spend time with her, tell her you love her and mean it
don't be afraid to do anything romantic, try to be her everything
Don't talk about other girls, agree to things she says
tell her she's pretty and she's your everything
GOOD LUCK
under any circumstances do not beg or show her that u can't live without her and certainly NO ROMANTIC IDEAS RIGHT NOW ! WHILE SHE IS ASKING U TO STAY AWAY!
i really suggest u go through this site and follow some of the guidelines from well proven methods..
remember: people break up and get together all the time :)
hang in there and give her some space- this will briong her back !-, and dont show her that u must have her, but instead that u appreciate her and respect what she has in mind, and ... again follow the steps at this site :)
http://murl.it/Ze6uQj.go
good luck
dont go down the romantic route
if you are asking for ideas now, its something you cannot maintain should you get back together
we dont fall for romantic gestures
we want the truth
and that, you can maintain
instead of a temporary measure
be honest with her
tell her how you feel, tell her what you want
ask what she expects
and if that doesnt get her back
no amount of flowers and chocolates ever will
good luck
Find another girlfriend right away and make sure she knows it. Then she will wonder why your not pondering over her like a little kitten, her brain will start turning, trust me she will come running. As far as the romantic stuff, forget it.
After they dump you they think they hold all the cards. You can hold a few of your own. Good luck
By the way if she still doesn't come back be glade you were not married and she decided to walk.
There are lots of beautiful women to choose from out there. enjoyHow can i get my ex back?
I agree you don't want to scare here away, give her space and try not to think and sit around go out with your buddys and make sure you are having a good time and keeping busy. You need to get your power back. If you guys broke over something not that serious, you can fix it if you do it right. Here an article that might help!
Try to get in touch with her female friends and let her know this. She will get jealous of you and will come back to u.Plan ur ways and execute it such that u can again get on with the relation. people have succeeded and with the right approach u might succeed too.
There are some resources like this which can help u get back ur ex.
http://www.get-your-ex-back.info
Ask her why she doesn't want you anymore
try think of what she wants and what she likes
take her places she love most, give her presents she wants
be romantic to her spend time with her, tell her you love her and mean it
don't be afraid to do anything romantic, try to be her everything
Don't talk about other girls, agree to things she says
tell her she's pretty and she's your everything
GOOD LUCK
under any circumstances do not beg or show her that u can't live without her and certainly NO ROMANTIC IDEAS RIGHT NOW ! WHILE SHE IS ASKING U TO STAY AWAY!
i really suggest u go through this site and follow some of the guidelines from well proven methods..
remember: people break up and get together all the time :)
hang in there and give her some space- this will briong her back !-, and dont show her that u must have her, but instead that u appreciate her and respect what she has in mind, and ... again follow the steps at this site :)
http://murl.it/Ze6uQj.go
good luck
dont go down the romantic route
if you are asking for ideas now, its something you cannot maintain should you get back together
we dont fall for romantic gestures
we want the truth
and that, you can maintain
instead of a temporary measure
be honest with her
tell her how you feel, tell her what you want
ask what she expects
and if that doesnt get her back
no amount of flowers and chocolates ever will
good luck
How can you get an ex back?
my relationship with my bf ended sadly... three weeks ago we had a talk on the phone and he was really mean to me so I just hung up and havent heard from him since, only one text on New Years day, a very impersonal one, so I didnt respond... I do miss him and still love him dispite of what happened, I wonder if he misses me too... what can I do ? I know a lot of people tell me to move on, but I miss him too much and want to try to make it work again...How can you get an ex back?
okay i was with my boyfriend for two years. he always told me that i was the GREATEST thing that happened to him and all this bullcrap and that he would never ever leave me. he was really into the fire fighting service and one day he broke up with me THROUGH A TEXT and told me that he wasn't happy anymore because he didn't have enough time for the fire house.
any guy that hurts you like this, especially over the phone or through a text, is not worth your time. i figured that out. it's going to take you a longgg time to get over it, it took me almost 5 months, but you will. you really can't do anything to get him back, if he wants to come back he will. my ex texted me on christmas morning just saying merry christmas and i said nothing back because i knew that if i would start talking to him again, it would make me miss him more.
your best bet is to just try to occupy yourself with other things, hang out with your friends, go to the movies or spend time with family. even hang out with other guys, it will help you get your mind off of him.
i wish you the BEST of luck because i know what you're going through and it really sucks. :[How can you get an ex back?
you're welcome, i know how you feel %26amp; i felt bad, because it's really hard to get over. :[ but GOOD LUCK again.
I know the feeling! I bet you hate it when your friends tell you to move on, you'll get over it, or that he's an ****** even though he might be!
Try talking to him seriously without arguing be matura and tell him that you miss him and are willing to try it againg.. But if he was mean to you then maybe it is time to move on. Don't show him you care and try to keep yourself occupied so you wont think bout him or have a temptation to call him! But i bet therer is someone out there for you that will treat you right. Dont settle for a looser and if he's not well just work things out!
My best friend recently went through a pretty nasty breakup and found a website that she claims was the sole reason she was able to get back with her ex.
I was a bit skeptical at first, but it was pretty remarkable witnessing how she was able to get her ex back after she followed the advice from the website. The tactics are a bit unconventional, but they absolutely work - my friend is proof.
Here is the website if you are interested - hope it can do for you what it did for my friend:
http://www.GetBackWithYourExToday.com
Well... to try and get him back what you have to do is give him time to cool off. But it seems like you already did that since you guys havent really talked in 3 weeks. The fact that he actually sent you a text on New Years is a good sign. Have you tried getting a hold of him? Does he just not pick up or answer? The thing is... you gotta try and talk to him and see what it is he is feeling. Maybe he misses you too. You never know if you dont try. I think that he was just mad that you hung up on him (guys hate that). Although if he was super mean to you why try and get back with him.
Even if you do make up, the thought of what happened will always be in the back of your mind. Never can you omit something from your memory; it'll always be there. I don't know how you deal with issues or problems, but I think about and analyze a lot, which is also my downfall... If he didn't talk to you for that long, maybe it's not worth pursuing.
If its over you need closure. It cant end like that. Be the bigger person and call him to find out whats going on. Ask him straight up are we done or can this be worked out. If it can be salvaged then work at it. No more of that being mean stuff for whatever reason. If its over then let it be over and move on. Life is too short to be stuck and to be unsure. Hope this helps you.
I would try to call him and stuff like want to know how he is.
He might have a bad bay that day he talked to you on the phone you kno
so call him or text him to see if he's ok now
he was nasty to u so its up to him to come crawling back. if he doesnt then he isnt worth it. dont hang by the phone waiting. get out with ur friends and maybe u realise u dont want him back anyway.
Change into the type of person he';expected'. Doe s that make sense/ If you two were together for any lenghth of time you'd know what he likes and doesn't.
so tell him wht you jsut told us its hard but its the only way you have to talk to him
you should have responded to his text anyway...you should txt him..
Listen to your friends and move on. He sounds like a dick.
okay i was with my boyfriend for two years. he always told me that i was the GREATEST thing that happened to him and all this bullcrap and that he would never ever leave me. he was really into the fire fighting service and one day he broke up with me THROUGH A TEXT and told me that he wasn't happy anymore because he didn't have enough time for the fire house.
any guy that hurts you like this, especially over the phone or through a text, is not worth your time. i figured that out. it's going to take you a longgg time to get over it, it took me almost 5 months, but you will. you really can't do anything to get him back, if he wants to come back he will. my ex texted me on christmas morning just saying merry christmas and i said nothing back because i knew that if i would start talking to him again, it would make me miss him more.
your best bet is to just try to occupy yourself with other things, hang out with your friends, go to the movies or spend time with family. even hang out with other guys, it will help you get your mind off of him.
i wish you the BEST of luck because i know what you're going through and it really sucks. :[How can you get an ex back?
you're welcome, i know how you feel %26amp; i felt bad, because it's really hard to get over. :[ but GOOD LUCK again.
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I know the feeling! I bet you hate it when your friends tell you to move on, you'll get over it, or that he's an ****** even though he might be!
Try talking to him seriously without arguing be matura and tell him that you miss him and are willing to try it againg.. But if he was mean to you then maybe it is time to move on. Don't show him you care and try to keep yourself occupied so you wont think bout him or have a temptation to call him! But i bet therer is someone out there for you that will treat you right. Dont settle for a looser and if he's not well just work things out!
My best friend recently went through a pretty nasty breakup and found a website that she claims was the sole reason she was able to get back with her ex.
I was a bit skeptical at first, but it was pretty remarkable witnessing how she was able to get her ex back after she followed the advice from the website. The tactics are a bit unconventional, but they absolutely work - my friend is proof.
Here is the website if you are interested - hope it can do for you what it did for my friend:
http://www.GetBackWithYourExToday.com
Well... to try and get him back what you have to do is give him time to cool off. But it seems like you already did that since you guys havent really talked in 3 weeks. The fact that he actually sent you a text on New Years is a good sign. Have you tried getting a hold of him? Does he just not pick up or answer? The thing is... you gotta try and talk to him and see what it is he is feeling. Maybe he misses you too. You never know if you dont try. I think that he was just mad that you hung up on him (guys hate that). Although if he was super mean to you why try and get back with him.
Even if you do make up, the thought of what happened will always be in the back of your mind. Never can you omit something from your memory; it'll always be there. I don't know how you deal with issues or problems, but I think about and analyze a lot, which is also my downfall... If he didn't talk to you for that long, maybe it's not worth pursuing.
If its over you need closure. It cant end like that. Be the bigger person and call him to find out whats going on. Ask him straight up are we done or can this be worked out. If it can be salvaged then work at it. No more of that being mean stuff for whatever reason. If its over then let it be over and move on. Life is too short to be stuck and to be unsure. Hope this helps you.
I would try to call him and stuff like want to know how he is.
He might have a bad bay that day he talked to you on the phone you kno
so call him or text him to see if he's ok now
he was nasty to u so its up to him to come crawling back. if he doesnt then he isnt worth it. dont hang by the phone waiting. get out with ur friends and maybe u realise u dont want him back anyway.
Change into the type of person he';expected'. Doe s that make sense/ If you two were together for any lenghth of time you'd know what he likes and doesn't.
so tell him wht you jsut told us its hard but its the only way you have to talk to him
you should have responded to his text anyway...you should txt him..
Listen to your friends and move on. He sounds like a dick.
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