No offence, but after he broke up with you, you should of found a way to let him go. Normally when i broke up with my ex-bfs, well, i didnt want them sticking around and trying to pick me back up and if they did, i got really annoyed and i did lose respect for them just because they were being a pain in my @$$.
The dammage is done.. you want his respect? Let him go! Quit chasing him around trying to get his respect, its only going to annoy him more. Move on. If he sees that you moved on and finally got yourself a life that doesnt revolve around him, then he'll start respecting you again.. but that doesnt mean he'll want you around. If he doesnt approach you, dont approach him. Simple.How to get back ex's respect?
He broke up with you a YEAR ago. I'm sorry that I may have to be cruel to be kind, but the truth aint never easy to hear.
Firstly, STOP flirting with him. Get a new haircut, buy some new clothes, you have to be more confident within yourself, let your confidence shine through, and THEN get a new boyfriend. Someone stable, who's good for you and won't let you down.
Show your ex that you have moved on. When he calls or something, ignore his calls and call him like 4 days later claiming you were 'busy' with your current boyfriend, or doing new things.
To get the respect you want - the key is to show him that you are very fine without him, that you do not need him or any man.
And I think after that, he will respect you. But do you want more than respect? Do you actually want to get back together with him? Remember HE broke up with YOU. There were reasons for that, and I think you have to STOP throwing yourself at him at every opportunity you get. Have some respect for yourself and then he will respect you
Hope that helped.
If your not going with him..then I would not flirt with him. I would treat him like a friend or relative. I would show yourself respect and then others will respect you in return.. Don't try to earn it back..if you respect yourself and change your behavior he will respect you on his own.. it is not about him.. it is about you. He needs to see that you are changing for yourself..if he thinks you are doing it for him..then he may not take it to heart thinking it will not last.. then who knows where things may go..good luck
I would say that if you want to build bridges you need to show him that you're willing to take some responsibility for what happened between you (this does not nessecarily mean confronting him, or taking all the blame, but rather, should it ever come up in conversation, just make it clear you want to move past it!) Hope this helps! :)
He can not respect you any more than you respect your self. How ever you strive to get his respect do so with considerable self respect.
Spiritual
Just try talking to him normally without flirting that will probably help.
Conceited.
Make out with a girl, or sleep with his best friend
just sit down and talk to him let him know how you feel don't act too flirtatious.
Move on...
Try not contacting him at all.
What do you think you are doing, remaining in contact with an ex? What is the point?
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