Friday, August 20, 2010

How can I cope and get back my one true love? how to get ex back?

Complicated situation with the military. I love the mother of my daughter who is also in a complicated situation with work and such. How can I deal with her. I love her but she does not love me or at least is under too much stress to provide me with the nessary love and emotional; relationship I want. Please help.How can I cope and get back my one true love? how to get ex back?
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if she tells u shedoesnt love u better to move on.

How to win her Back(ex) Advice (little long) but need help?

it has been about a month and almost a half since we broke up and our two years is this month, we had a really open relationship and could trust eachother very much. we broke up in augest b/c of feeling wise.


anyways i know our realtionship just lost that spark and i wanna know how to get that back. the last couple of weeks have been weird and confusing. 2 weeks ago our school had a dance and she started to dance with me and she was gettin all into it and grinding and stuff. this week we talked alot more like text messaging and what not, and i aways say goodnight to her before i got to sleep, on friday of last week she asked me to have lunch with her and we just talked about what sport she is playing, and then she asked for a ride to the gym. saturday moring at 2:00am she sent me a textsaying she was at the hospital and had to get crutches and we talked for about 20mins and i was the one that had to go b/c i was tired lol and im surprised she didnt say ill let you go. we still text each other alot, and friday i got a texted message from my friend and she thought it was say(chris) but it wasnt it was from a girl that i use to like before we hooked up and she was like OH say(juilie) is that julie in like a little angry tone kinda jelous tone, then last period i got another text and she was around and said Julie agian. anyways i know that she has feelings shes just hiding or running from them. guys please help me what can i do to get that spark back and do u think she still does have feelings and she is just hiding please helpHow to win her Back(ex) Advice (little long) but need help?
go with no contact dude. that means no txting, no IMing, email, facebook, ect. go out with your boys, meet other ppl. this will drive her nuts. its hard trust me but it does work. she neds to come back on her own. live your life, go have fun. meet some new girls.





was in the same boat and met a girl that was 1000x better for me and im in a relationship with her now. the ex was FURIOUS. and couldnt stand it. she was acting like she didnt care about me but when she found out i was sexin another girl, she couldnt take it. How to win her Back(ex) Advice (little long) but need help?
i think she likes you but she wants to be friends cuz it sounds like you guys had a good relationship and i guess it hurt wen you broke up.


she probbly still wants to hang out and talk because you were probbly her best friend for a long time and she wants that back.





just hang out with her and be a good friend then maybe who knows what will happen

How to get my ex back?

my ex boyfriend broke up with me like 3 weeks ago, and he says hes never going to get back together with me...what do i do to make him want me back, and make him realize that he made a mistake? he was like the perfect guy and im so sad now.How to get my ex back?
you cant control other peoples feelings and how they express them the only thing you can control is your feelings and how you express them.(good luck)How to get my ex back?
I will tell you what my brothers girlfriend did when he broke up with her.





She remained very calm, when he went to pick up his stuff she was all done up and acted friendly.





Then it was like once or twice a week she would say how she forgot something at the house and who have to pick it up and of course she would be all done up when she got there.





She basically just kept herself in the picture until it was like they were dating again.
Be independent!!!! Go out with friends, ignore him %26amp; have lots of fun. Fun like the relationship you had with him was not important and that you have moved on! If you call him, cry in front of him you are only a cling on and that will get on his nerves, if you don't call, go out, laugh he will wonder why you are so happy and he will think that you never like him, that's a big thing for his male ego...men run after what they think they cannot have...not for the things that are too easy. And you know what..date other guys..you will see and meet prob..a lot of better men anyways.. Enjoy your life and don't make 1 guy stop it for you!!!
Well, take it from me, begging him to come back won't work. Telling his new girl that she's a tramp won't help, either. It will make you look desperate.





So do this - go on with your life. Be as independent as possible. Get your nails and hair done. Clean up your house %26amp; get rid of his crap - put it in a box by the door. If he runs into you or goes over, he'll see how great you're doing and if he has ANY feelings left, his interest will be piqued...but do not make yourself super-available. Let him know that you've moved on %26amp; are great on your own. Then he'll see what he's missing and either he'll come back, or he won't. And if he doesn't, his loss...
You cannot make him get back to you. Don't appear too desperate. He won't like that. Here is an article I found at http://beanrocket.com/magicofmakingup that will help you. I just picked out the sentences that struck me as something that can help you.





In the Magic of Making Up guide, you will learn what you should not say to your ex and what you should say to save your relationship.





Before I give you the actual words that you should say, let me go over the message that usually NEVER work all the time and makes you feel worse all the time. There are two categories explained in the Magic of Making Up guide and that is Pleading to your ex. This is how that may sound to your ex on the phone:





“Hey, Joey, can you please, please, please return my phone call? This is my fourth time calling you and you haven’t called me back. Please, Please, call me back today. I must talk with you today. Please!”





The next category is the Emergency call that sounds something like this:





“Hey Joey, this is Carol. This is an emergency call. Please give me a call as soon as you get this message. This is URGENT, Please!”





Do you see what is wrong with these approach categories? And yet, this is what most people do. Instead, you should use the curiosity and self interest methods to your advantage.





The human mind is always curious about things and has an interest in self more than they would care to acknowledge. The big secret now is this and when combined will produce pure magic. Let us take a look at what you can say to your ex that will work nearly all the time.





Your friendly phone call will go like this:





“Hey, Joey, this is Carol. I really wanted to call to let you know how much I appreciated what you did for me. Call me back because I want to personally thank you for what you did.”





Do you see how the combination of curiosity and self interest works with that phone call? Believe me, Joey will not be able to oppose or reject the urge to call you back. He is going to be asking himself, “I wonder what she is talking about? I don’t remember doing anything for her to thank me for? I wonder what she appreciates about me.” This is going to make him have an ego trip because it makes him look like the good guy he probably isn’t.





Your appreciation does not have to be anything great. It can be a small token of your appreciation, but make sure it is credible. Before you call please be sure to have the strategy that T.W. Jackson lays out in his Magic of Making Up guide. If you use this technique with no strategy, then when you get that phone call back, it will only make matters worse and more difficult to fix. It is important what you do before, during and after that return phone call. This will be what determines the steps to get ex back.





Does this make sense to you? I hope it does. Make sure you have a plan and T.W. Jackson has a plan in the Magic for Making Up Guide. I am rooting for you.



Kidnapping and hobbling. He will never leave again.
If there was anything you bothered with perfection. If you have anything still to give (not sex) then wait, he comes back. If not, then forget him because he will never know you.
Just move on. He said he will never get back with you so you need to accept that. And there is no such things as the perfect guy.
the perfect guy won't break up with you.
So sorry to hear this. I wrote an article about it which might help you.





So you're wondering how to get your ex back? It's pretty hard when you break up with your ex. It's even hard trying to get on with your life. Some say you should move on but what if you're not ready to? This article will show you how to get your ex girlfriend, boyfriend or lover back easily.





Did you know that 90% of all break ups can be turned around and the happy couple could be back together again? The key is to understand and execute the simple steps needed to win back your ex.





Step 1: Why did the break up happen?





Don't keep telling yourself it's not your fault! Because 9 times of out 10 it is. So the first step is to identify what made you ex leave? Was it something they didn't like about you? Was it something you said or refused to do? What ever it is you need to identify the reasons) and come to terms with it. If you don't know why they left how can you keep your ex from breaking up again? Before you get your ex back, learn why they left.





Step 2: Don't make yourself seem needy!





If you want you ex back you might feel like you want your ex to know that you can't live without them but the truth of the matter is that they really don't need to know. Don't come across as being needy. Be strong. Let you ex see that you can go on without him or her and let everyone around you see the same. Research shows the 80% of the time people found it a turn off to see their ex being needy or desperate. So don't be needy if you want to get your ex back.





Step 3: Watch the video at the end of this article.





How to get your ex back is a science really. There are things that you need to avoid doing if you want the get your ex back. Don't try to make them jealous of anger them, to name a few. You need to know how to let your ex know that you were the best thing that ever happened to them and that getting back together with you is the best thing to do too, despite the small issues you were having. The video below will show you the exact steps you need to take to win back your ex.





If you're wondering How To Get Your Ex Back then simply watch the video at the site below and learn the simple steps you need to take to get your ex back - Guaranteed!





Don't sit there looking sad and miserable. You can turn this around and have your ex back in no time.





All you have to do is watch the video at http://www.eMakingUp.com and get your ex back right now! Hurry before you lose them for good!






Sorry to hear about the breakup. Why will he not take you back, were you unfaithful or terribly cruel (maybe even abusive) toward him? The theory about breakups is that they are typically never permanent solutions, they are usually tests of some sort. With you at your weakest, you become more submissive and responsive to his every request. This should stop. Accept the breakup verbally, thank him for making the decision and let him know that you value the freedom he has allowed you to have back. Be as positive as possible when you deliver this news. This will pique his interest; why are you happy and not devastated anymore? Why is it that you value your freedom? Have you moved on? Why are you so positive? See, this would make anyone nervous, especially since he knows he's got you by a string right now. Then you will need to go several days without seeing or speaking with him. This will be tough, but by doing so you are allowing him to finally miss you. Plus, it will get you to clear your head and focus on the future relationship. Remember, you need to be happy to!





Best of luck!


Sam


Relationship Advisor


http://www.theMatchMakerReview.com/makin…

How To get ex Back!!Helppp :(?

Ok so me and this guy Mike been dating for a little while n i honestly love him.. ive never felt this way about any other guy and he told me he felt the same way and we were doing so well up til like a week ago when he didnt talk to me for a whole week all's he would do is send like a couple word text every day.. then this week he and i got in a fight he said that he was mad because i went to the mall with a guy Jay will call him.. but he is my friend and i know i shouldnt of but i wanted to go and Mike wasnt talking to me and my Bestfriend and friend went also.. so i thought he was over it because after the mall me and Mike hung out and he said he was mad but he know i only want him.. He was also mad because my best friend told me she saw him with two girls and i asked him about it.. but over this fight he broke up with me and i tried everything.. sending him long texts of how i dont wanna lose him and pictures of us together and everything but alls he said is i need time and then ill tell you why i cant do this.. but he doesnt even talk to me anymore.. i dont know what to do please help me..:( i want him back in my life.. how do i make him jealous or get him to talk to meHow To get ex Back!!Helppp :(?
He sounds insecure and childish. He either no longer likes you and doesn't know how to end it, or he's just incredibly unstable (emotionally). Try talking to him about it instead of playing games. Tell him what's really bothering you.How To get ex Back!!Helppp :(?
Move on
If you love him as much as you say you do, you will respect his desiosion for the time being and give him space. Dont beg for him or make yourself vunerable, cause its a real turn off for guys and you will only push him away more because he will think you are becoming desperate and obessesive.


I would advise you NEVER to use the jelousy thing when getting an ex back. if you look all over the net, many articles will tell you that. Its the worst thing and it makes them think you have moved on and that they should to.


Here is a guide that shows the top 10 worst mistakes when getting back your ex .. http://www.datingadvicesecrets.com/men/1鈥?/a>


and her is 8 tips to follow when getting them back http://www.buzzle.com/articles/how-to-ge鈥?/a>





Hope ive helped and good luck :)
Hello having small quarrels like this one helps the two of you to be able to adjust with each others' needs. Don't worry too much. This is just part of growing. If you both realize you feel great for each other then both of you will be able to look for ways on how you should get along together in the future.


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  • Any need to call back ex bf?

    Ex broke up with me 6 months ago, said he wanted to remain friends because he wants to be a good Christian and love his neighbor. We tried to be platonic, but that just ended up in a drunken-almost-hookup the one time we've seen each since breaking up, which basically totally devastated me again--he knew about this. So we cooled it for a while, and now he's called me again--typical, ';wanna see how you're doing, give me a call, i'm here for you,'; and he asks our mutual friend to tell me to contact him, etc. Is this necessary? I'm seeing other people, and I'm pretty sure he is too. I've just finally *really* gotten over him, and have fully regained my identity and confidence without him. Am I a bad person to want to stay out of touch? Why does he insist?Any need to call back ex bf?
    Ignore him. If he asks say you've moved on.Any need to call back ex bf?
    ould forget this guy completely.You know what he wants,don't even let him near you.He's the same guy who wanted out.He got his wish.Now keep him there.For good.your own

    How to get my ex back? ?

    Me and my ex were together for 2 years and finished 6 months ago but have still been out with each other and stayed in touch (whether we were on good terms or bad terms) and he still flirts now but this christmas is just going to be so weird without him. I was thinking about sending him a christmas card, but what to put inside? Should I tell him how I feel but maybe that would just push him away coming on too strong? Or should I just try to be nice? Any suggestions on what to say would be really helpful :) and no nasty answers please.How to get my ex back? ?
    i was in your situation this time last year so id say yes get him a card dont say to much in it just wish him a lovely xmas no i wouldnt put how you feel unless your really sure hed want to get back together otherwise hel be put of short and sweet is your best bet hope all works out for you have a lovely xmas whatever happens yes 2 years together will be hard this xmas without him we got back together a week before but he wasnt my b/f he was my husband so all the bestHow to get my ex back? ?
    Well, I think you should just be nice. Guys do not like their ex-girlfriend crawling back to them. The harsh truth is men never take back a woman when they are done with it. Best to pretend nothing happened and you do not care at all. And yes, pretend that you do not care about him at all otherwise he will push away more and your friends will start telling you to get over him and all those useless things that you do not wish to hear..
    This sounds like a fairly light carefree relationship that isn't really what I'd term romantic right now however I do see potential for possibly something more in the near future, with that said, I would keep things in the here and now, so lean more into where you both are today without being to forward, in other words be nice and caring in a simple way, most men like simplicity, as they tend to get distracted with to many words, and sometimes it only takes a few words to really make your point, so my advise is simple, keep it simple.
    Well i always used to tell my exes how i felt, and they always completely rejected me, and then as soon as i moved on and got a new boyfriend they had a sudden change of heart and wanted me back. Men are idiots. If you want him back, pretend you've moved on and got a new fella, if he thinks he's lost you he'll be all over you, i guarantee. If he thinks you're moping around cut up over him he'll just feel all smug that he's got somebody waiting around for him, show him who's boss. The only thing is, after all that, do you really want a guy like that, that plays games, you're better off without him
    i wouldnt bother , only cus more than likely, you're gonna make a fool of yourself. IF he was interested in having you back, you'd KNOW it.


    Dont read so much into every little flirtatious behavior as it being he wants you back. Again, if he wants you, he'll tell you, other than that, you may want to move on. If you were meant to be together, you'd never have split up. ....


    Statistics show, 75 percent of people who split up and get back together, ..only split up again. Let him go
    i say you give him the card and be nice to him if y'all were together that long it probably is still something between you i say if he really loves you he will know you still have feelings for him and he probably still does to,.
    I found a pretty good site for you...





    http://getbacktogetherwithyourex.com





    TONS of information on how to win your ex back and I think it will really help you out.





    Hope it helps %26amp; Good luck!!!





    - Katie : )
    He is an ex for a reason.


    If he finished with you but still flirts he is playing on your emotion and will use you, if you finished with him, remind yourself why!
    Ask him if he'd like to spend Christmas with you.I don't believe in playing games.Whatever caused your breakup 6 months ago,should be addressed before you expect to get him back.
    Tell him how you truly feel. Let the cards fall where they may. Life is too short for games.
    just be really nice and sweet. try not to put how u feel about him in there. u never know if he just see's u as a friend now. so just be cordial

    How do i get my ex back???

    i need a fool-proof way to win an ex back that will NOT fail. if you have one, please tell me, cuz i need it right now. i am madly in love with my ex and neeeeeed to win her back somehow.


    please, someone help.How do i get my ex back???
    Stop by her place every day until she takes you back. Several times a day is better. And call her parents. ALL THE TIME.How do i get my ex back???
    Dude, you are desperate.....So, let time take it's course. Do not stalk her.... She is not an animal. No flowers, maybe an invite for coffee ( No mention of your past, But show some confidence!) But let me reiterate, DO NOT STALK HER! sooner or later, she may or may not come around... But in the meantime, start a new relationship, start fresh. Take it from me.. Shes not the only sand at the ''beach''.
    don't act keen! be nice and funny and hang out with her and be ';mates


    '; but pretend your not interested but just do little things that make her totally unsure ... hard to get wins every time and if all else fails you will still have a good friend and a whole lot of confidence!
    They're an ex for a reason.





    If you must force the issue, all you can do is lay it all out there and put yourself and heart on the line. Everything else is up to them.
    No clue how you ppl separated; as it wud have been of help to answer.


    Anyways, go ahead, buy some flowers and chocolates and tell her that you want her back.
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    Figure out what really drives her and what she needs.
    Tell Him/Her You want them Back.


    Don't Try To Make Him/Her Jealous. He Or She Would hate you for That.
    Just put it out there. And from their reaction you'll know what to do.
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