Friday, August 20, 2010

How should i go about getting my ex back?

today my girlfriend broke up with me via telephone


and she said she couldn't handle a summer relationship because we were both gone and had no time to see the other but could still talk and stuff.


she said she would be open to getting together again come august and school.


so how do i ensure that this doesn't become a nasty split and that we are still interested in one another come fall?How should i go about getting my ex back?
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What are the best things to say, to get an ex back?

Weeeell basically i had a lovely girlfriend a while ago, but we broke up, but since then we have been chatting all the time, (every night) for ages and ages, and now i just want to know how i can sway her away from the whole 'friends' thing more to the more popular 'boyfriend' thing..





Or actually if thats just not possible than let me know. I'm gonna call a spade a spade, and thats that i quite clearly still love her, and i think she knows that, and although we have so much fun, i think she doesn't like me in that way... Pathetic i know, to be honest i never thought i would find myself in a situation like this... but oh well here i am.. and can anyone help me with anything good to say...





Its kinda a big deal to me... thanks so muchWhat are the best things to say, to get an ex back?
Shes keeping you close for a reason. And if she still loves you, you'll know, BUT if it's just a comfort thing, than she's being selfish. And you shouldnt hurt yourself like that.


Breaking up is so hard, it sucks, but either you try to win her back before someone else steals her away from you, tell her how much she means to you, remind her of all the good times you had, make her want you too.


OR if thats not what she wants, forget about her. You need to let her go, otherwise it'll hurt to much being ';the friend'; who watches her with other guys.


The decisions up to you, but play it by ear, if you cant read her, TALK TO HER.. and go from there.





Good luck :):):)What are the best things to say, to get an ex back?
Honestly, it depends a lot on why you broke up in the first place. If you hurt her, she may not be as receptive to another go around with you...if she broke up with you or hurt you in some way then you might question how much she actually cares for your feelings.





But the only wrong thing is do nothing. Spend some time together and be honest with her...the worst she can do is say no, and then you can start to move on.
Apart from saying `I still love you you know` and `If I had my way, we`d get back together tomorrow`....I can`t see what else you can do.








But these two remarks would give her an opening, and her response would give you a clue if there is a chance.


If she doesn`t want to get back with you, she will just give that little non-commital laugh, that girls do when they don`t want to say anything.
just tell her ,you had a dream she was a nun you were a monk. Simply meaning that if you guys can't be together then you can't be with anyone else.
can i please have the past back pretty please

How well am I doing to win my ex back?

If she is going on dates with other guys? she said she would wait. Would you consider that to be a slap in the face? She told me to get my life in order and she would be waiting. Im getting my life in order, does it look like she is waiting?How well am I doing to win my ex back?
Are you sure you have the whole story? Maybe it's not as black and white as you think it is, I am doing the same thing to my bf, he needs to grow up some before I can be with him, and I really need to talk to someone, but every time I make plans, the person I make plans with turns it around and makes it a date. I try to be straight up with him so it doesn't hurt him if he sees the guys being unusual toward me, but I'm not acting on anything, my heart belongs to him and I just need him to show me that he wants to be with me, actually, my whole situation is complicated. But I keep telling him, my heart is his.How well am I doing to win my ex back?
then you shouldn't wait either. date other people duh. she isn't waiting. She seems like time is precious to her. rofl.

How can I get my ex back?

My ex boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago, and I'm really sad and depressed and I have no idea what to do. We have been going out for 10 months. He said that I am too attached and immature and that we would be better off as friends.





I don't know how to act that will make him want me back.


I can't eat very much or sleep well.


Please helpHow can I get my ex back?
It sounds to me as though he felt you were smothering him. I think this is actually a smart break up. You need some time to learn how to deal with this and learn to do things alone, and have some time to mature.





If you're asking how to get him back it tells me you don't even understand why he broke up with you. Until you understand this, you really shouldn't be going out with any boy.

Do you think it is possible to get back an ex boyfriend?

My boyfriend broke up with me because we were in a semi long distance relationship (which he couldnt handle) and because I wasnt ready for a serious relationship. I am now ready for a serious relationship and am going to be in his area quite a lot. I've tried talking to him and he says he still likes me a lot and is attracted to me, but he doesnt know if he can get back together with me. How do you convince him he should?Do you think it is possible to get back an ex boyfriend?
You are barking up the wrong tree.Do you think it is possible to get back an ex boyfriend?
Yes it is possible..........If u still love ue ex boyfriend..........right?

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Sweetheart, everything happens for a reason. If it is meant for you to be together, it will happen. Dont press the subject, give it some time. Good luck
You shouldn't have to convince him...Maybe he likes you but just doesn't want to be with you anymore and just doesn't want to come out and tell you that.
juss kiss him
U tell him that u love him and ask him to plz get back 2gether with u.
Well u should explain to him how u feel and that your desperately in love with him
Don't call him. Don't write him. Don't email him. And when he calls you ... tell him you have a boyfriend.





You'll be surprised how he will perk up with interest.
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  • How can i get my ex back?

    We broke up Yesterday, She says she doesn't like me the same, we dated for a year and a month, We fell in love with eachother and then BAM she doesn't want me anymore. I love her to death and i would do pretty much anything to get her back. Do you got any ideas of how i can get her back? I will try anything once. I need lots of ideas. I need some romantic ideas as well ppl. Thanks.How can i get my ex back?
    Find another girlfriend right away and make sure she knows it. Then she will wonder why your not pondering over her like a little kitten, her brain will start turning, trust me she will come running. As far as the romantic stuff, forget it.


    After they dump you they think they hold all the cards. You can hold a few of your own. Good luck


    By the way if she still doesn't come back be glade you were not married and she decided to walk.


    There are lots of beautiful women to choose from out there. enjoyHow can i get my ex back?
    I agree you don't want to scare here away, give her space and try not to think and sit around go out with your buddys and make sure you are having a good time and keeping busy. You need to get your power back. If you guys broke over something not that serious, you can fix it if you do it right. Here an article that might help!
    Try to get in touch with her female friends and let her know this. She will get jealous of you and will come back to u.Plan ur ways and execute it such that u can again get on with the relation. people have succeeded and with the right approach u might succeed too.





    There are some resources like this which can help u get back ur ex.





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    Ask her why she doesn't want you anymore


    try think of what she wants and what she likes


    take her places she love most, give her presents she wants


    be romantic to her spend time with her, tell her you love her and mean it


    don't be afraid to do anything romantic, try to be her everything


    Don't talk about other girls, agree to things she says


    tell her she's pretty and she's your everything


    GOOD LUCK
    under any circumstances do not beg or show her that u can't live without her and certainly NO ROMANTIC IDEAS RIGHT NOW ! WHILE SHE IS ASKING U TO STAY AWAY!





    i really suggest u go through this site and follow some of the guidelines from well proven methods..





    remember: people break up and get together all the time :)





    hang in there and give her some space- this will briong her back !-, and dont show her that u must have her, but instead that u appreciate her and respect what she has in mind, and ... again follow the steps at this site :)





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    good luck
    dont go down the romantic route


    if you are asking for ideas now, its something you cannot maintain should you get back together


    we dont fall for romantic gestures


    we want the truth





    and that, you can maintain


    instead of a temporary measure





    be honest with her


    tell her how you feel, tell her what you want


    ask what she expects


    and if that doesnt get her back


    no amount of flowers and chocolates ever will





    good luck

    How can you get an ex back?

    my relationship with my bf ended sadly... three weeks ago we had a talk on the phone and he was really mean to me so I just hung up and havent heard from him since, only one text on New Years day, a very impersonal one, so I didnt respond... I do miss him and still love him dispite of what happened, I wonder if he misses me too... what can I do ? I know a lot of people tell me to move on, but I miss him too much and want to try to make it work again...How can you get an ex back?
    okay i was with my boyfriend for two years. he always told me that i was the GREATEST thing that happened to him and all this bullcrap and that he would never ever leave me. he was really into the fire fighting service and one day he broke up with me THROUGH A TEXT and told me that he wasn't happy anymore because he didn't have enough time for the fire house.


    any guy that hurts you like this, especially over the phone or through a text, is not worth your time. i figured that out. it's going to take you a longgg time to get over it, it took me almost 5 months, but you will. you really can't do anything to get him back, if he wants to come back he will. my ex texted me on christmas morning just saying merry christmas and i said nothing back because i knew that if i would start talking to him again, it would make me miss him more.


    your best bet is to just try to occupy yourself with other things, hang out with your friends, go to the movies or spend time with family. even hang out with other guys, it will help you get your mind off of him.


    i wish you the BEST of luck because i know what you're going through and it really sucks. :[How can you get an ex back?
    you're welcome, i know how you feel %26amp; i felt bad, because it's really hard to get over. :[ but GOOD LUCK again.

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    I know the feeling! I bet you hate it when your friends tell you to move on, you'll get over it, or that he's an ****** even though he might be!


    Try talking to him seriously without arguing be matura and tell him that you miss him and are willing to try it againg.. But if he was mean to you then maybe it is time to move on. Don't show him you care and try to keep yourself occupied so you wont think bout him or have a temptation to call him! But i bet therer is someone out there for you that will treat you right. Dont settle for a looser and if he's not well just work things out!
    My best friend recently went through a pretty nasty breakup and found a website that she claims was the sole reason she was able to get back with her ex.





    I was a bit skeptical at first, but it was pretty remarkable witnessing how she was able to get her ex back after she followed the advice from the website. The tactics are a bit unconventional, but they absolutely work - my friend is proof.





    Here is the website if you are interested - hope it can do for you what it did for my friend:





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    Well... to try and get him back what you have to do is give him time to cool off. But it seems like you already did that since you guys havent really talked in 3 weeks. The fact that he actually sent you a text on New Years is a good sign. Have you tried getting a hold of him? Does he just not pick up or answer? The thing is... you gotta try and talk to him and see what it is he is feeling. Maybe he misses you too. You never know if you dont try. I think that he was just mad that you hung up on him (guys hate that). Although if he was super mean to you why try and get back with him.
    Even if you do make up, the thought of what happened will always be in the back of your mind. Never can you omit something from your memory; it'll always be there. I don't know how you deal with issues or problems, but I think about and analyze a lot, which is also my downfall... If he didn't talk to you for that long, maybe it's not worth pursuing.
    If its over you need closure. It cant end like that. Be the bigger person and call him to find out whats going on. Ask him straight up are we done or can this be worked out. If it can be salvaged then work at it. No more of that being mean stuff for whatever reason. If its over then let it be over and move on. Life is too short to be stuck and to be unsure. Hope this helps you.
    I would try to call him and stuff like want to know how he is.


    He might have a bad bay that day he talked to you on the phone you kno


    so call him or text him to see if he's ok now
    he was nasty to u so its up to him to come crawling back. if he doesnt then he isnt worth it. dont hang by the phone waiting. get out with ur friends and maybe u realise u dont want him back anyway.
    Change into the type of person he';expected'. Doe s that make sense/ If you two were together for any lenghth of time you'd know what he likes and doesn't.
    so tell him wht you jsut told us its hard but its the only way you have to talk to him
    you should have responded to his text anyway...you should txt him..
    Listen to your friends and move on. He sounds like a dick.

    How do you get an ex boyfriend back that is confused about being single or being with a great girl?

    Men love to be single (I get it, more flavors of ice cream) but if you are with a really great good girl, aren't you afraid of losing her. And if you're the girl, how do you let him know that?How do you get an ex boyfriend back that is confused about being single or being with a great girl?
    Your right men do love to be single....but only for a time. The lifestyle of ';different flavors of Ice Cream'; can get old after a while. If he is in this phase there isn't much you can really do but let him grow out of it. If you push the issue you'll just push him away because it will look like your being needy or desperate. If you really want him back then you need to move one with your life and let it get back to him that you've done so. If he knows your right there waiting for him then whats he got to worry about? Take the fact that your waiting for him out of the equation and see if he comes around. How do you get an ex boyfriend back that is confused about being single or being with a great girl?
    I'm going through it too girl, best thing you can do it try to show him that you are ok without him. The thing that sucks is that you are better off without him and it is YOU that you have to convince of that, he knows it already, but he knows you love him and that's why he's not treating you right. Guys are selfish, so go out and have fun and try to get over him... You'll be better off, and if its meant to be then he'll come back begging, and if he doesn't try hard enough to get back with you then he doesn't really want it. Dont get too excited if he wants to hang out, just hang out, be yourself, and have a great time showing him what he is missing, and he'll come around. At least that's what I keep telling myself, and it seems to be working.. Keeping my fingers crossed for both of us:)
    Hi Saek,





    There is a definitive way to get an ex back. You have to make him realize that you are the ';right'; girl. It's not a tricky matter, but you probably don't know how to do this because your feelings are getting in the way.





    So, to make a long story short, my first recommendation would be to stop letting him know just how much you want/love him and instead focus on bringing your qualities to his attention.





    Let me know if you need further instructions and good luck!





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    It's almost a lost cause. i felt that way about my ex and then he didn't care. (now almost 2yrs later) he has been through 3 girls and is still unhappy. guys like girls but they do regret losing a great girl. they just don't want to admit it.
    Whatever you do, don't let him know by TELLING him. Just find a way to SHOW him.





    This is quite important. If you just tell him that you want him back, he will have confirmation that he hasn't quite ';lost'; you yet.

    How to get your ex back that you are now friends with benifits with?

    my exboyfriend and I are now friends with benifits, it was his idea and i agreed because i knew it was a way to keep him in my life and possibly get him back (dont judge me)


    do you have any ideas on how i can get him back? we were together for about 5 months and in love with eachother, its a long story on how things ended but i really want him back.How to get your ex back that you are now friends with benifits with?
    Hi





    Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.





    if you desire to get your ex back try following these steps:





    1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to remove the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.





    Don't let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can't achieve the goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Bad thoughts are destructive behavior and you don't want them..





    2.Don't pester your ex boyfriend. Men just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously call him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It's very important give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.





    3.Become an object of desire. If you can, get some new makeup. more recommended things to get are new clothes and new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start doing some exercises and eating healthy. When looking good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, others will easily see it. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.





    These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back. For more tips on how to get ex boyfriend back and relationship advice check the great blog of Mike and Dianne. Here's the address:





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    I hope that you will get your ex boyfriend back soon!How to get your ex back that you are now friends with benifits with?
    If you want him back you need to stop sleeping with him. It might sounds weird but that is the only way. You need to stop giving him the thing that needs to be shared in relationship. It seems like he is just using you.


    A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!


    There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.


    Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you want to:





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    .Nicole FWB only works for the guy.He has all the comforts of home.Without cost,commitment or respect.He'll dump you as soon as he finds a suitable replacement.Stop degrading yourself for a crumb off his late.Move on.Guys don't respect bed partners
    im in the same exact situation, seriously.





    ugh guys are confusing. i think u should just give up on him, and just be friends with benefits until you find a better guy, thats what im doing.
    Why should he be your boyfriend again when you give him what he wants with no commitment from him? You are being used.





    This ';friends with benefits'; is the dumbest thing you kids have ever thought up.
    Ok ....firstly if you think he's not worth it then why bother right..? but if he is worth it then try this .... i mean nobody want's to feel like their in debt, society now days only works via debts if you know what i mean. so if there is a problem you know he needs help with then solve it! no problem..? create one. {{don't do something stupid}} something classy yet classic .. the other one is if you want him closer find a way to make him feel like he is special so like bring back old times if he has saved you or get an advantage of something that he helped you with ....you keep reminding him that it was a massive favour and keep reminding him that.that way he will want to keep you by his side





    work's for me! should work for you





    and remember do what feel right if something doesn't feel right then don'good luck (Y)

    How should I go about getting my ex back?

    I broke up with him about 10 months ago. I tried to get him back a couple months after we broke up, but he said he wasn't sure what he wanted. We lived an hour apart, and the distance got hard. I want to try again and am willing to put more effort into seeing him. Should I try again? I don't want to seem too needyHow should I go about getting my ex back?
    Kidnap him!How should I go about getting my ex back?
    just rape him. no big deal..
    Move closer for starters, or else its still going to be a long distance relationship and still hard.
    Ah, but you are needy if you are willing to drive an hour to see him. If it was hard before, it will still be hard. You are just forgetting why you call him an ';ex';.
    think long and hard about that... ive been in that position before... you really need to remember what made it so bad that u ended it in the first place...if you think hes worth it then you need to figure out if thats an option for him as well


    goodluck!





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    How do I get my ex back?

    She broke up with me because she said she didn't feel anything for anything anymore, including me, but still wants to talk, and is responsive, if hesitant to talk about getting back together but says she doesnt want a relationship right now. What does it mean and how can I get her back?How do I get my ex back?
    Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you want to: http://www.exbackguides.com/How do I get my ex back?
    Sorry to hear about your break up. If your ex really doesn't want to get back together, then you can't force the issue. It's hard to tell from your question if she is just at a confused point where she needs some time or if she really does not want to get back together.





    Either way some time spent apart should help you both get clear about the status of the relationship. After a period of time, she may start to miss you and value the relationship more. I know it will be tough but a little time apart right now could be a very healthy step to take.
    Give her time to be alone and decide what she wants. I know it sucks when you're not on the same page anymore, and you want something she doesn't. I'm sorry. Just let her be alone for a while so she can think and decide if she wants you to be back in her life romantically. She probably just has a lot going on and I doubt it's because of another guy or anything like that, so don't worry. Stay friends and be patient, I'm sure if it was meant to be, she'll want to get back together soon enough.
    I would say if your woman is saying that she doesn't feel for anything anymore then there is a deeper issue at hand here. Look don't feel discouraged the laws of attraction don't change. If she felt for you once then she can again, you just have to play your cards right. Don't smother her or text her a million times. Agree with the breakup, almost make it like your freedom. I know it sounds strange but you are not going to be able to argue her into submission so you have got to play the game a little bit. I can't really tell you everything you need to know here but I learned almost everything I know from the source in my resource box. That guy is better at explaining it then I am.





    Best of luck!
    There is hope here. At lease she is still talking to you. You need a PLAN, before you even talk to her again.





    Whatever you do don't make the common mistakes after a breakup like:


    - Calling and begging her to come back


    - Saying you are sorry and you will change


    - Buying and sending her gifts





    Sounds weird but those are the worst thing you can do. I bet it hasn't worked yet if you have been doing them.





    Read the ebook below BEFORE you even talk to her again it WILL make the difference between getting her back or losing her for good.





    Good luck.
    I'm not an expert so I wont give you advice that will hurt you,but I know this great site that could help you out a lot.
    There are a few things you can do to get her back. I read an article earlier that explained exactly what you should do.





    I'll leave the link for you to read. I hope this helps....
    If she doesnt want to be in a relationship right now, you should just let her be. The last thing you want her to see you as is a nuisance. Take it easy, maybe she'll come around sooner than later.
    There's not much of a chance your going to get her back, she doesn't want to be in a relationship.
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  • Need advice. . .mom may be taking back ex. . .abused me when I was 10?

    I want to move out of my mother's apartment; she's taken back her abusive boyfriend and I don't know what to do. He's supposed to move out soon since he'll have his own apartment soon, but. . .





    I turn 17 in about a week, and I can't just run away and stay hidden till I'm 18. . .





    So please give me some advice here. I don't want to contact DCS again, since my phone and comp would definately be taken away soon as they find out, and I'll just be a minor legally for another year. . .





    This man made my life HELL for two years. First time I ever had a suicidal thought.


    I was 10 then, and being just a kid, I was naive. . .he took my mother from me, he took my games, my stuffed animals, my dignity, my peace of mind- everything.


    He would make me sit on a stool for hours at a time, and still, according to him, I was ';rebellious';...but I know I wasn't, I did everything I was told. . .





    My life has been so rough, and I've yearned to turn 18 since I was 11, but that reality isn't here just yet.





    It hasn't gotten as bad as it was 6 years ago, but I can't help but worry.





    Mom tells me and assures me that he IS moving out, but I know how sneaky and conniving that man is. She's stronger and wiser now, but I can't help but worry. . .





    We're waiting on the landlord of the apartment he's renting to put in a fridge - he already has running water, a washer and dryer, etc etc, but I wish that the landlord would hurry up. . .





    I'm just so scared. . .I really am, but when I cry or have a breakdown, mom usually gets irritated with me and says ';I'm trying to get him out of here as fast as I can!';





    Am I just being impatient? What should I do?





    So please, give me advice! Much thanks!Need advice. . .mom may be taking back ex. . .abused me when I was 10?
    Thank God u R 17 now. Remember, U R no longer 10.YOU have more control NOW.


    I can tell U from experience that if U do not face this situation NOW, this is going to bother U for the rest of your life. U need to explain to MOM how exactly U feel and tell her in DETAIL what happened when U were 10. No holding back. U need to let it out and she needs to hear it from her own DAUGHTERS MOUTH and make sure your eyes r locked on hers. Tell HER%26gt;


    If U do not, then U R the one holding back. AND if he definitely this, HE is definitely going to treat other children like this, and worse. Sounds like he is capable of a few different nasty things.


    This is something U need to find some1 to talk w/not friends. U need a professional guidance. Go to your guidance counselor @ school, (if U R still in school), they will refer U to counselor, hopefully on a confidential basis. IF U R not in School, U need to call the National Crisis and Counseling Centers in America. There is an office in every state, city.


    Please, I am in my late 40's. I can tell U that when I was your age, my mother did some weird things w/her partner, (not my father) and when I was 10, I didn't understand. As the years went on, and I turned 15, I moved out at 16 and never went back. Oh, yes, my mother ended up marrying this man. I can tell u this has destroyed my TRUST IN MEN AND WOMEN.


    I mean how can U trust a woman, when your own mother is in deniel and a MAN, when it is a father figure, and hurts U to. PLEASE DO NOT LET THIS HAPPEN. STOP THE CHAIN, U need to talk with the Police, Put this in your hands and make a change. HE will do this again to another family.


    Tell the police, say to them, this has been reported b4, I am not saying go arrest this man, but please make a note, some procedure, so that U have everything on file that I am telling U, because someday, U may get a call from a family in crisis or another girl w/a complaint on this man.


    Then, make sure that U seek counseling, DO NOT LET THIS MAN CONTROL YOUR MIND INTO THINKING THAT MEN R LIKE THAT, THEY ARE NOT, THERE R NICE MEN OUT THERE.


    U will end up not trusting any1. U will not want to make friends as U get older due to trust issues.


    I am telling U, seriously, no joking, either get out now, (if she keeps him)if she don't, then everything is different. all will / should be ok.


    Do not sweep this under the rug. make sure people know about this man. (authorities).


    I hope all works out, if U need to talk contact me @ fantasy12395@yahoo.com


    I wish u the best,


    PS%26lt; don't turn out like me. alone, no friends, in my 40's, to this day, it bothers me please don't let this manifest in your life anymore, OH and let him know, if he tries ONE thing that U R no longer 10 and a little girl, tell him , (i will take the means, what ever they r and put U down, right where U belong, DO NOT PUSH ME INTO IT), TAKE A STAND. IF HE GETS IN YOUR FACE, SAY, U JUST $UCKED UP!-CALL 911 AND THEY WILL REMOVE HIM AND TELL HIM NEVER TO COME BACK OR CONTACT YOU IN ANY WAY AND ANOTHER THING WHERE U R 17, CHECK WITH THE LOCAL COURT AND SEE IF U CAN PUT A RESTRAINING ORDER ON HIM THAT HE CAN NOT COME INTO SO MANY FEET OF YOU OR HE WILL BE ARRESTED. To do that, start to write a letter to Dear Your Honor, and explain the whole situation....


    That my dear, i think will stop everything!


    Best to you


    Keep your head high and always look forward.


    LindaNeed advice. . .mom may be taking back ex. . .abused me when I was 10?
    Hi sweetie.


    First off do not panic.


    Second I would go and have a talk with the local clergy .I also would advise you to go to the police dept.and ask to talk to an adviser on this mater.


    Best of luck to you.


    Be strong and be smart.


    please rate
    contact your grandmother or cousins uncles, aunts, or etc. call the police but first you have to get proof that he is abusive get a recorder or a video recorder and tape him secretly and then call the police and then give it to the police.
    Talk to your mom more about it and how you felt abused when he was living with you before. It really does not make much sense for her to take him in if he is going to move back out again. The man probably will try to weasel his way into staying longer. Why can't he stay wherever he is until his apartment is ready? Geez, he can move in without a refrigerator. He could either buy one of those very small refrigerators or use an ice chest til his refrigerator is put in. It takes what, one day to order a refrigerator and have it installed? This temporary move in sounds very fishy to me.
    You're going to have to contact someone like DCS, the police, or a clergy member. No good parent lets an abusive man move in with their family. I bet that landlord and the apartment without a fridge are fictitious. She's let him move in for good. She cares more about him than you. Unless you're capable of making him afraid of you, you need to get out of there as fast as you can. Do you have a relative or a friend you can stay with?
    Does your mom know about all the things he did to you when you were little? If not, then you should tell her ASAP.





    Besides, it looks like he's getting out. I understand why you are so worried, but don't be. After all, things look like they are working out!





    If he tries anything with you again, tell your mom immediately.





    And in case he doesn't end up moving out, you can always search somewhere for a girl's hostel or something or ask an aunt/uncle if you can move in with them for a year until you can get a job and rent your own apartment. Start hunting for job opportunities and apartments now itself. Prepare yourself and make sure you have sufficient qualifications to get a decent job.





    Or you could always go to college after finishing 12th grade.

    Question on how to get back ex-girlfriend?

    My girlfriend broke up with me on sunday after she let problems she had with me boil over. She said she didn't feel the same way anymore and these problems really bothered her. She never communicated any of these problems she had with me though, so I didn't really know. We talked it over on saturday and decided to go on a break but then after a day, she called and changed her mind and now we are broken up. I've been out of town since monday and haven't really talked to her since then. I plan on coming back into town this sunday but don't know when I should talk to her again or what I could say. I've talked to some friends and they said wait atleast 2 weeks before I try and talk to her again so I thought I'd do that. I thought I'd sit down, have coffee, and try to talk about everything that happened and see if there is a chance to make it work. If she really doesn't want to make it work or has found someone else, then it's obvious that I'll have to move on at that point. Should I wait this amount of time before talking to her and should I try this talk with her? Help me out as I really want things to work out between us and not screw up my chances. ThanksQuestion on how to get back ex-girlfriend?
    Hello





    Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.





    Here are few steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:





    Don't Ask Her To Get Back Together





    You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!





    You're only shot at getting her back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.





    But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.





    So don't ignore someone's texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.


    You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her.








    Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go





    You must understand that ...SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It's ok if it bothers you, but don't let it show and don't call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don't have any right to tell her what to do.


    If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.





    Being Flexible Is Very Important





    Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Rather be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn't take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.





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    Hope it helps.Question on how to get back ex-girlfriend?
    yeah your friends are right, wait at least two weeks to get in touch with her again. if she really wants to talk to you she'll contact you. if she does contact you don't answer right away. good luck :)
    What's your age if you don't mind my asking? I'm in a similar situation. Get me at sweetfacett@yahoo.com-otherwise good luck
    You might wait til she calls again and say something meaningful but very demure, like ';I really don't want to lose you.'; Leave it at that. If she refuses or can't make up her mind, your only options are to wait quietly or move on. Any other attempts to get her to love you again will backfire on you. You'll be labeled the ';boy who can't understand no'; or worse...they like to throw that ';stalker'; word around. ';He won't leave me alone.'; ';He keeps hounding me.'; Etc. You know the drill. If she really wants it to work, she won't let you get away.

    How can I cope and get back my one true love? how to get ex back?

    Complicated situation with the military. I love the mother of my daughter who is also in a complicated situation with work and such. How can I deal with her. I love her but she does not love me or at least is under too much stress to provide me with the nessary love and emotional; relationship I want. Please help.How can I cope and get back my one true love? how to get ex back?
    If you still love her and need guide to get your ex love back . This website guide may for you


    http://magicofgetloveback.blogspot.com/How can I cope and get back my one true love? how to get ex back?
    if she tells u shedoesnt love u better to move on.

    How to win her Back(ex) Advice (little long) but need help?

    it has been about a month and almost a half since we broke up and our two years is this month, we had a really open relationship and could trust eachother very much. we broke up in augest b/c of feeling wise.


    anyways i know our realtionship just lost that spark and i wanna know how to get that back. the last couple of weeks have been weird and confusing. 2 weeks ago our school had a dance and she started to dance with me and she was gettin all into it and grinding and stuff. this week we talked alot more like text messaging and what not, and i aways say goodnight to her before i got to sleep, on friday of last week she asked me to have lunch with her and we just talked about what sport she is playing, and then she asked for a ride to the gym. saturday moring at 2:00am she sent me a textsaying she was at the hospital and had to get crutches and we talked for about 20mins and i was the one that had to go b/c i was tired lol and im surprised she didnt say ill let you go. we still text each other alot, and friday i got a texted message from my friend and she thought it was say(chris) but it wasnt it was from a girl that i use to like before we hooked up and she was like OH say(juilie) is that julie in like a little angry tone kinda jelous tone, then last period i got another text and she was around and said Julie agian. anyways i know that she has feelings shes just hiding or running from them. guys please help me what can i do to get that spark back and do u think she still does have feelings and she is just hiding please helpHow to win her Back(ex) Advice (little long) but need help?
    go with no contact dude. that means no txting, no IMing, email, facebook, ect. go out with your boys, meet other ppl. this will drive her nuts. its hard trust me but it does work. she neds to come back on her own. live your life, go have fun. meet some new girls.





    was in the same boat and met a girl that was 1000x better for me and im in a relationship with her now. the ex was FURIOUS. and couldnt stand it. she was acting like she didnt care about me but when she found out i was sexin another girl, she couldnt take it. How to win her Back(ex) Advice (little long) but need help?
    i think she likes you but she wants to be friends cuz it sounds like you guys had a good relationship and i guess it hurt wen you broke up.


    she probbly still wants to hang out and talk because you were probbly her best friend for a long time and she wants that back.





    just hang out with her and be a good friend then maybe who knows what will happen

    How to get my ex back?

    my ex boyfriend broke up with me like 3 weeks ago, and he says hes never going to get back together with me...what do i do to make him want me back, and make him realize that he made a mistake? he was like the perfect guy and im so sad now.How to get my ex back?
    you cant control other peoples feelings and how they express them the only thing you can control is your feelings and how you express them.(good luck)How to get my ex back?
    I will tell you what my brothers girlfriend did when he broke up with her.





    She remained very calm, when he went to pick up his stuff she was all done up and acted friendly.





    Then it was like once or twice a week she would say how she forgot something at the house and who have to pick it up and of course she would be all done up when she got there.





    She basically just kept herself in the picture until it was like they were dating again.
    Be independent!!!! Go out with friends, ignore him %26amp; have lots of fun. Fun like the relationship you had with him was not important and that you have moved on! If you call him, cry in front of him you are only a cling on and that will get on his nerves, if you don't call, go out, laugh he will wonder why you are so happy and he will think that you never like him, that's a big thing for his male ego...men run after what they think they cannot have...not for the things that are too easy. And you know what..date other guys..you will see and meet prob..a lot of better men anyways.. Enjoy your life and don't make 1 guy stop it for you!!!
    Well, take it from me, begging him to come back won't work. Telling his new girl that she's a tramp won't help, either. It will make you look desperate.





    So do this - go on with your life. Be as independent as possible. Get your nails and hair done. Clean up your house %26amp; get rid of his crap - put it in a box by the door. If he runs into you or goes over, he'll see how great you're doing and if he has ANY feelings left, his interest will be piqued...but do not make yourself super-available. Let him know that you've moved on %26amp; are great on your own. Then he'll see what he's missing and either he'll come back, or he won't. And if he doesn't, his loss...
    You cannot make him get back to you. Don't appear too desperate. He won't like that. Here is an article I found at http://beanrocket.com/magicofmakingup that will help you. I just picked out the sentences that struck me as something that can help you.





    In the Magic of Making Up guide, you will learn what you should not say to your ex and what you should say to save your relationship.





    Before I give you the actual words that you should say, let me go over the message that usually NEVER work all the time and makes you feel worse all the time. There are two categories explained in the Magic of Making Up guide and that is Pleading to your ex. This is how that may sound to your ex on the phone:





    “Hey, Joey, can you please, please, please return my phone call? This is my fourth time calling you and you haven’t called me back. Please, Please, call me back today. I must talk with you today. Please!”





    The next category is the Emergency call that sounds something like this:





    “Hey Joey, this is Carol. This is an emergency call. Please give me a call as soon as you get this message. This is URGENT, Please!”





    Do you see what is wrong with these approach categories? And yet, this is what most people do. Instead, you should use the curiosity and self interest methods to your advantage.





    The human mind is always curious about things and has an interest in self more than they would care to acknowledge. The big secret now is this and when combined will produce pure magic. Let us take a look at what you can say to your ex that will work nearly all the time.





    Your friendly phone call will go like this:





    “Hey, Joey, this is Carol. I really wanted to call to let you know how much I appreciated what you did for me. Call me back because I want to personally thank you for what you did.”





    Do you see how the combination of curiosity and self interest works with that phone call? Believe me, Joey will not be able to oppose or reject the urge to call you back. He is going to be asking himself, “I wonder what she is talking about? I don’t remember doing anything for her to thank me for? I wonder what she appreciates about me.” This is going to make him have an ego trip because it makes him look like the good guy he probably isn’t.





    Your appreciation does not have to be anything great. It can be a small token of your appreciation, but make sure it is credible. Before you call please be sure to have the strategy that T.W. Jackson lays out in his Magic of Making Up guide. If you use this technique with no strategy, then when you get that phone call back, it will only make matters worse and more difficult to fix. It is important what you do before, during and after that return phone call. This will be what determines the steps to get ex back.





    Does this make sense to you? I hope it does. Make sure you have a plan and T.W. Jackson has a plan in the Magic for Making Up Guide. I am rooting for you.



    Kidnapping and hobbling. He will never leave again.
    If there was anything you bothered with perfection. If you have anything still to give (not sex) then wait, he comes back. If not, then forget him because he will never know you.
    Just move on. He said he will never get back with you so you need to accept that. And there is no such things as the perfect guy.
    the perfect guy won't break up with you.
    So sorry to hear this. I wrote an article about it which might help you.





    So you're wondering how to get your ex back? It's pretty hard when you break up with your ex. It's even hard trying to get on with your life. Some say you should move on but what if you're not ready to? This article will show you how to get your ex girlfriend, boyfriend or lover back easily.





    Did you know that 90% of all break ups can be turned around and the happy couple could be back together again? The key is to understand and execute the simple steps needed to win back your ex.





    Step 1: Why did the break up happen?





    Don't keep telling yourself it's not your fault! Because 9 times of out 10 it is. So the first step is to identify what made you ex leave? Was it something they didn't like about you? Was it something you said or refused to do? What ever it is you need to identify the reasons) and come to terms with it. If you don't know why they left how can you keep your ex from breaking up again? Before you get your ex back, learn why they left.





    Step 2: Don't make yourself seem needy!





    If you want you ex back you might feel like you want your ex to know that you can't live without them but the truth of the matter is that they really don't need to know. Don't come across as being needy. Be strong. Let you ex see that you can go on without him or her and let everyone around you see the same. Research shows the 80% of the time people found it a turn off to see their ex being needy or desperate. So don't be needy if you want to get your ex back.





    Step 3: Watch the video at the end of this article.





    How to get your ex back is a science really. There are things that you need to avoid doing if you want the get your ex back. Don't try to make them jealous of anger them, to name a few. You need to know how to let your ex know that you were the best thing that ever happened to them and that getting back together with you is the best thing to do too, despite the small issues you were having. The video below will show you the exact steps you need to take to win back your ex.





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    Don't sit there looking sad and miserable. You can turn this around and have your ex back in no time.





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    Sorry to hear about the breakup. Why will he not take you back, were you unfaithful or terribly cruel (maybe even abusive) toward him? The theory about breakups is that they are typically never permanent solutions, they are usually tests of some sort. With you at your weakest, you become more submissive and responsive to his every request. This should stop. Accept the breakup verbally, thank him for making the decision and let him know that you value the freedom he has allowed you to have back. Be as positive as possible when you deliver this news. This will pique his interest; why are you happy and not devastated anymore? Why is it that you value your freedom? Have you moved on? Why are you so positive? See, this would make anyone nervous, especially since he knows he's got you by a string right now. Then you will need to go several days without seeing or speaking with him. This will be tough, but by doing so you are allowing him to finally miss you. Plus, it will get you to clear your head and focus on the future relationship. Remember, you need to be happy to!





    Best of luck!


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    How To get ex Back!!Helppp :(?

    Ok so me and this guy Mike been dating for a little while n i honestly love him.. ive never felt this way about any other guy and he told me he felt the same way and we were doing so well up til like a week ago when he didnt talk to me for a whole week all's he would do is send like a couple word text every day.. then this week he and i got in a fight he said that he was mad because i went to the mall with a guy Jay will call him.. but he is my friend and i know i shouldnt of but i wanted to go and Mike wasnt talking to me and my Bestfriend and friend went also.. so i thought he was over it because after the mall me and Mike hung out and he said he was mad but he know i only want him.. He was also mad because my best friend told me she saw him with two girls and i asked him about it.. but over this fight he broke up with me and i tried everything.. sending him long texts of how i dont wanna lose him and pictures of us together and everything but alls he said is i need time and then ill tell you why i cant do this.. but he doesnt even talk to me anymore.. i dont know what to do please help me..:( i want him back in my life.. how do i make him jealous or get him to talk to meHow To get ex Back!!Helppp :(?
    He sounds insecure and childish. He either no longer likes you and doesn't know how to end it, or he's just incredibly unstable (emotionally). Try talking to him about it instead of playing games. Tell him what's really bothering you.How To get ex Back!!Helppp :(?
    Move on
    If you love him as much as you say you do, you will respect his desiosion for the time being and give him space. Dont beg for him or make yourself vunerable, cause its a real turn off for guys and you will only push him away more because he will think you are becoming desperate and obessesive.


    I would advise you NEVER to use the jelousy thing when getting an ex back. if you look all over the net, many articles will tell you that. Its the worst thing and it makes them think you have moved on and that they should to.


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    Hope ive helped and good luck :)
    Hello having small quarrels like this one helps the two of you to be able to adjust with each others' needs. Don't worry too much. This is just part of growing. If you both realize you feel great for each other then both of you will be able to look for ways on how you should get along together in the future.


    Good luck
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    Ex broke up with me 6 months ago, said he wanted to remain friends because he wants to be a good Christian and love his neighbor. We tried to be platonic, but that just ended up in a drunken-almost-hookup the one time we've seen each since breaking up, which basically totally devastated me again--he knew about this. So we cooled it for a while, and now he's called me again--typical, ';wanna see how you're doing, give me a call, i'm here for you,'; and he asks our mutual friend to tell me to contact him, etc. Is this necessary? I'm seeing other people, and I'm pretty sure he is too. I've just finally *really* gotten over him, and have fully regained my identity and confidence without him. Am I a bad person to want to stay out of touch? Why does he insist?Any need to call back ex bf?
    Ignore him. If he asks say you've moved on.Any need to call back ex bf?
    ould forget this guy completely.You know what he wants,don't even let him near you.He's the same guy who wanted out.He got his wish.Now keep him there.For good.your own

    How to get my ex back? ?

    Me and my ex were together for 2 years and finished 6 months ago but have still been out with each other and stayed in touch (whether we were on good terms or bad terms) and he still flirts now but this christmas is just going to be so weird without him. I was thinking about sending him a christmas card, but what to put inside? Should I tell him how I feel but maybe that would just push him away coming on too strong? Or should I just try to be nice? Any suggestions on what to say would be really helpful :) and no nasty answers please.How to get my ex back? ?
    i was in your situation this time last year so id say yes get him a card dont say to much in it just wish him a lovely xmas no i wouldnt put how you feel unless your really sure hed want to get back together otherwise hel be put of short and sweet is your best bet hope all works out for you have a lovely xmas whatever happens yes 2 years together will be hard this xmas without him we got back together a week before but he wasnt my b/f he was my husband so all the bestHow to get my ex back? ?
    Well, I think you should just be nice. Guys do not like their ex-girlfriend crawling back to them. The harsh truth is men never take back a woman when they are done with it. Best to pretend nothing happened and you do not care at all. And yes, pretend that you do not care about him at all otherwise he will push away more and your friends will start telling you to get over him and all those useless things that you do not wish to hear..
    This sounds like a fairly light carefree relationship that isn't really what I'd term romantic right now however I do see potential for possibly something more in the near future, with that said, I would keep things in the here and now, so lean more into where you both are today without being to forward, in other words be nice and caring in a simple way, most men like simplicity, as they tend to get distracted with to many words, and sometimes it only takes a few words to really make your point, so my advise is simple, keep it simple.
    Well i always used to tell my exes how i felt, and they always completely rejected me, and then as soon as i moved on and got a new boyfriend they had a sudden change of heart and wanted me back. Men are idiots. If you want him back, pretend you've moved on and got a new fella, if he thinks he's lost you he'll be all over you, i guarantee. If he thinks you're moping around cut up over him he'll just feel all smug that he's got somebody waiting around for him, show him who's boss. The only thing is, after all that, do you really want a guy like that, that plays games, you're better off without him
    i wouldnt bother , only cus more than likely, you're gonna make a fool of yourself. IF he was interested in having you back, you'd KNOW it.


    Dont read so much into every little flirtatious behavior as it being he wants you back. Again, if he wants you, he'll tell you, other than that, you may want to move on. If you were meant to be together, you'd never have split up. ....


    Statistics show, 75 percent of people who split up and get back together, ..only split up again. Let him go
    i say you give him the card and be nice to him if y'all were together that long it probably is still something between you i say if he really loves you he will know you still have feelings for him and he probably still does to,.
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    - Katie : )
    He is an ex for a reason.


    If he finished with you but still flirts he is playing on your emotion and will use you, if you finished with him, remind yourself why!
    Ask him if he'd like to spend Christmas with you.I don't believe in playing games.Whatever caused your breakup 6 months ago,should be addressed before you expect to get him back.
    Tell him how you truly feel. Let the cards fall where they may. Life is too short for games.
    just be really nice and sweet. try not to put how u feel about him in there. u never know if he just see's u as a friend now. so just be cordial

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    i need a fool-proof way to win an ex back that will NOT fail. if you have one, please tell me, cuz i need it right now. i am madly in love with my ex and neeeeeed to win her back somehow.


    please, someone help.How do i get my ex back???
    Stop by her place every day until she takes you back. Several times a day is better. And call her parents. ALL THE TIME.How do i get my ex back???
    Dude, you are desperate.....So, let time take it's course. Do not stalk her.... She is not an animal. No flowers, maybe an invite for coffee ( No mention of your past, But show some confidence!) But let me reiterate, DO NOT STALK HER! sooner or later, she may or may not come around... But in the meantime, start a new relationship, start fresh. Take it from me.. Shes not the only sand at the ''beach''.
    don't act keen! be nice and funny and hang out with her and be ';mates


    '; but pretend your not interested but just do little things that make her totally unsure ... hard to get wins every time and if all else fails you will still have a good friend and a whole lot of confidence!
    They're an ex for a reason.





    If you must force the issue, all you can do is lay it all out there and put yourself and heart on the line. Everything else is up to them.
    No clue how you ppl separated; as it wud have been of help to answer.


    Anyways, go ahead, buy some flowers and chocolates and tell her that you want her back.
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    Figure out what really drives her and what she needs.
    Tell Him/Her You want them Back.


    Don't Try To Make Him/Her Jealous. He Or She Would hate you for That.
    Just put it out there. And from their reaction you'll know what to do.
    lick her nose 3 times a day and then sleep in her mums bed XD

    How to win her Back(ex) Advice (little long) but need help?

    it has been about a month and almost a half since we broke up and our two years is this month, we had a really open relationship and could trust eachother very much. we broke up in augest b/c of feeling wise.


    anyways i know our realtionship just lost that spark and i wanna know how to get that back. the last couple of weeks have been weird and confusing. 2 weeks ago our school had a dance and she started to dance with me and she was gettin all into it and grinding and stuff. this week we talked alot more like text messaging and what not, and i aways say goodnight to her before i got to sleep, on friday of last week she asked me to have lunch with her and we just talked about what sport she is playing, and then she asked for a ride to the gym. saturday moring at 2:00am she sent me a textsaying she was at the hospital and had to get crutches and we talked for about 20mins and i was the one that had to go b/c i was tired lol and im surprised she didnt say ill let you go. we still text each other alot, and friday i got a texted message from my friend and she thought it was say(chris) but it wasnt it was from a girl that i use to like before we hooked up and she was like OH say(juilie) is that julie in like a little angry tone kinda jelous tone, then last period i got another text and she was around and said Julie agian. anyways i know that she has feelings shes just hiding or running from them. guys please help me what can i do to get that spark back and do u think she still does have feelings and she is just hiding please helpHow to win her Back(ex) Advice (little long) but need help?
    go with no contact dude. that means no txting, no IMing, email, facebook, ect. go out with your boys, meet other ppl. this will drive her nuts. its hard trust me but it does work. she neds to come back on her own. live your life, go have fun. meet some new girls.





    was in the same boat and met a girl that was 1000x better for me and im in a relationship with her now. the ex was FURIOUS. and couldnt stand it. she was acting like she didnt care about me but when she found out i was sexin another girl, she couldnt take it. How to win her Back(ex) Advice (little long) but need help?
    i think she likes you but she wants to be friends cuz it sounds like you guys had a good relationship and i guess it hurt wen you broke up.


    she probbly still wants to hang out and talk because you were probbly her best friend for a long time and she wants that back.





    just hang out with her and be a good friend then maybe who knows what will happen

    How to get my ex back?

    my ex boyfriend broke up with me like 3 weeks ago, and he says hes never going to get back together with me...what do i do to make him want me back, and make him realize that he made a mistake? he was like the perfect guy and im so sad now.How to get my ex back?
    you cant control other peoples feelings and how they express them the only thing you can control is your feelings and how you express them.(good luck)How to get my ex back?
    I will tell you what my brothers girlfriend did when he broke up with her.





    She remained very calm, when he went to pick up his stuff she was all done up and acted friendly.





    Then it was like once or twice a week she would say how she forgot something at the house and who have to pick it up and of course she would be all done up when she got there.





    She basically just kept herself in the picture until it was like they were dating again.
    Be independent!!!! Go out with friends, ignore him %26amp; have lots of fun. Fun like the relationship you had with him was not important and that you have moved on! If you call him, cry in front of him you are only a cling on and that will get on his nerves, if you don't call, go out, laugh he will wonder why you are so happy and he will think that you never like him, that's a big thing for his male ego...men run after what they think they cannot have...not for the things that are too easy. And you know what..date other guys..you will see and meet prob..a lot of better men anyways.. Enjoy your life and don't make 1 guy stop it for you!!!
    Well, take it from me, begging him to come back won't work. Telling his new girl that she's a tramp won't help, either. It will make you look desperate.





    So do this - go on with your life. Be as independent as possible. Get your nails and hair done. Clean up your house %26amp; get rid of his crap - put it in a box by the door. If he runs into you or goes over, he'll see how great you're doing and if he has ANY feelings left, his interest will be piqued...but do not make yourself super-available. Let him know that you've moved on %26amp; are great on your own. Then he'll see what he's missing and either he'll come back, or he won't. And if he doesn't, his loss...
    You cannot make him get back to you. Don't appear too desperate. He won't like that. Here is an article I found at http://beanrocket.com/magicofmakingup that will help you. I just picked out the sentences that struck me as something that can help you.





    In the Magic of Making Up guide, you will learn what you should not say to your ex and what you should say to save your relationship.





    Before I give you the actual words that you should say, let me go over the message that usually NEVER work all the time and makes you feel worse all the time. There are two categories explained in the Magic of Making Up guide and that is Pleading to your ex. This is how that may sound to your ex on the phone:





    “Hey, Joey, can you please, please, please return my phone call? This is my fourth time calling you and you haven’t called me back. Please, Please, call me back today. I must talk with you today. Please!”





    The next category is the Emergency call that sounds something like this:





    “Hey Joey, this is Carol. This is an emergency call. Please give me a call as soon as you get this message. This is URGENT, Please!”





    Do you see what is wrong with these approach categories? And yet, this is what most people do. Instead, you should use the curiosity and self interest methods to your advantage.





    The human mind is always curious about things and has an interest in self more than they would care to acknowledge. The big secret now is this and when combined will produce pure magic. Let us take a look at what you can say to your ex that will work nearly all the time.





    Your friendly phone call will go like this:





    “Hey, Joey, this is Carol. I really wanted to call to let you know how much I appreciated what you did for me. Call me back because I want to personally thank you for what you did.”





    Do you see how the combination of curiosity and self interest works with that phone call? Believe me, Joey will not be able to oppose or reject the urge to call you back. He is going to be asking himself, “I wonder what she is talking about? I don’t remember doing anything for her to thank me for? I wonder what she appreciates about me.” This is going to make him have an ego trip because it makes him look like the good guy he probably isn’t.





    Your appreciation does not have to be anything great. It can be a small token of your appreciation, but make sure it is credible. Before you call please be sure to have the strategy that T.W. Jackson lays out in his Magic of Making Up guide. If you use this technique with no strategy, then when you get that phone call back, it will only make matters worse and more difficult to fix. It is important what you do before, during and after that return phone call. This will be what determines the steps to get ex back.





    Does this make sense to you? I hope it does. Make sure you have a plan and T.W. Jackson has a plan in the Magic for Making Up Guide. I am rooting for you.



    Kidnapping and hobbling. He will never leave again.
    If there was anything you bothered with perfection. If you have anything still to give (not sex) then wait, he comes back. If not, then forget him because he will never know you.
    Just move on. He said he will never get back with you so you need to accept that. And there is no such things as the perfect guy.
    the perfect guy won't break up with you.
    So sorry to hear this. I wrote an article about it which might help you.





    So you're wondering how to get your ex back? It's pretty hard when you break up with your ex. It's even hard trying to get on with your life. Some say you should move on but what if you're not ready to? This article will show you how to get your ex girlfriend, boyfriend or lover back easily.





    Did you know that 90% of all break ups can be turned around and the happy couple could be back together again? The key is to understand and execute the simple steps needed to win back your ex.





    Step 1: Why did the break up happen?





    Don't keep telling yourself it's not your fault! Because 9 times of out 10 it is. So the first step is to identify what made you ex leave? Was it something they didn't like about you? Was it something you said or refused to do? What ever it is you need to identify the reasons) and come to terms with it. If you don't know why they left how can you keep your ex from breaking up again? Before you get your ex back, learn why they left.





    Step 2: Don't make yourself seem needy!





    If you want you ex back you might feel like you want your ex to know that you can't live without them but the truth of the matter is that they really don't need to know. Don't come across as being needy. Be strong. Let you ex see that you can go on without him or her and let everyone around you see the same. Research shows the 80% of the time people found it a turn off to see their ex being needy or desperate. So don't be needy if you want to get your ex back.





    Step 3: Watch the video at the end of this article.





    How to get your ex back is a science really. There are things that you need to avoid doing if you want the get your ex back. Don't try to make them jealous of anger them, to name a few. You need to know how to let your ex know that you were the best thing that ever happened to them and that getting back together with you is the best thing to do too, despite the small issues you were having. The video below will show you the exact steps you need to take to win back your ex.





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    Don't sit there looking sad and miserable. You can turn this around and have your ex back in no time.





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    Sorry to hear about the breakup. Why will he not take you back, were you unfaithful or terribly cruel (maybe even abusive) toward him? The theory about breakups is that they are typically never permanent solutions, they are usually tests of some sort. With you at your weakest, you become more submissive and responsive to his every request. This should stop. Accept the breakup verbally, thank him for making the decision and let him know that you value the freedom he has allowed you to have back. Be as positive as possible when you deliver this news. This will pique his interest; why are you happy and not devastated anymore? Why is it that you value your freedom? Have you moved on? Why are you so positive? See, this would make anyone nervous, especially since he knows he's got you by a string right now. Then you will need to go several days without seeing or speaking with him. This will be tough, but by doing so you are allowing him to finally miss you. Plus, it will get you to clear your head and focus on the future relationship. Remember, you need to be happy to!





    Best of luck!


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    Relationship Advisor


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    How To get ex Back!!Helppp :(?

    Ok so me and this guy Mike been dating for a little while n i honestly love him.. ive never felt this way about any other guy and he told me he felt the same way and we were doing so well up til like a week ago when he didnt talk to me for a whole week all's he would do is send like a couple word text every day.. then this week he and i got in a fight he said that he was mad because i went to the mall with a guy Jay will call him.. but he is my friend and i know i shouldnt of but i wanted to go and Mike wasnt talking to me and my Bestfriend and friend went also.. so i thought he was over it because after the mall me and Mike hung out and he said he was mad but he know i only want him.. He was also mad because my best friend told me she saw him with two girls and i asked him about it.. but over this fight he broke up with me and i tried everything.. sending him long texts of how i dont wanna lose him and pictures of us together and everything but alls he said is i need time and then ill tell you why i cant do this.. but he doesnt even talk to me anymore.. i dont know what to do please help me..:( i want him back in my life.. how do i make him jealous or get him to talk to meHow To get ex Back!!Helppp :(?
    He sounds insecure and childish. He either no longer likes you and doesn't know how to end it, or he's just incredibly unstable (emotionally). Try talking to him about it instead of playing games. Tell him what's really bothering you.How To get ex Back!!Helppp :(?
    Move on
    If you love him as much as you say you do, you will respect his desiosion for the time being and give him space. Dont beg for him or make yourself vunerable, cause its a real turn off for guys and you will only push him away more because he will think you are becoming desperate and obessesive.


    I would advise you NEVER to use the jelousy thing when getting an ex back. if you look all over the net, many articles will tell you that. Its the worst thing and it makes them think you have moved on and that they should to.


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    Hope ive helped and good luck :)
    Hello having small quarrels like this one helps the two of you to be able to adjust with each others' needs. Don't worry too much. This is just part of growing. If you both realize you feel great for each other then both of you will be able to look for ways on how you should get along together in the future.


    Good luck
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    Ex broke up with me 6 months ago, said he wanted to remain friends because he wants to be a good Christian and love his neighbor. We tried to be platonic, but that just ended up in a drunken-almost-hookup the one time we've seen each since breaking up, which basically totally devastated me again--he knew about this. So we cooled it for a while, and now he's called me again--typical, ';wanna see how you're doing, give me a call, i'm here for you,'; and he asks our mutual friend to tell me to contact him, etc. Is this necessary? I'm seeing other people, and I'm pretty sure he is too. I've just finally *really* gotten over him, and have fully regained my identity and confidence without him. Am I a bad person to want to stay out of touch? Why does he insist?Any need to call back ex bf?
    Ignore him. If he asks say you've moved on.Any need to call back ex bf?
    ould forget this guy completely.You know what he wants,don't even let him near you.He's the same guy who wanted out.He got his wish.Now keep him there.For good.your own

    How to get my ex back? ?

    Me and my ex were together for 2 years and finished 6 months ago but have still been out with each other and stayed in touch (whether we were on good terms or bad terms) and he still flirts now but this christmas is just going to be so weird without him. I was thinking about sending him a christmas card, but what to put inside? Should I tell him how I feel but maybe that would just push him away coming on too strong? Or should I just try to be nice? Any suggestions on what to say would be really helpful :) and no nasty answers please.How to get my ex back? ?
    i was in your situation this time last year so id say yes get him a card dont say to much in it just wish him a lovely xmas no i wouldnt put how you feel unless your really sure hed want to get back together otherwise hel be put of short and sweet is your best bet hope all works out for you have a lovely xmas whatever happens yes 2 years together will be hard this xmas without him we got back together a week before but he wasnt my b/f he was my husband so all the bestHow to get my ex back? ?
    Well, I think you should just be nice. Guys do not like their ex-girlfriend crawling back to them. The harsh truth is men never take back a woman when they are done with it. Best to pretend nothing happened and you do not care at all. And yes, pretend that you do not care about him at all otherwise he will push away more and your friends will start telling you to get over him and all those useless things that you do not wish to hear..
    This sounds like a fairly light carefree relationship that isn't really what I'd term romantic right now however I do see potential for possibly something more in the near future, with that said, I would keep things in the here and now, so lean more into where you both are today without being to forward, in other words be nice and caring in a simple way, most men like simplicity, as they tend to get distracted with to many words, and sometimes it only takes a few words to really make your point, so my advise is simple, keep it simple.
    Well i always used to tell my exes how i felt, and they always completely rejected me, and then as soon as i moved on and got a new boyfriend they had a sudden change of heart and wanted me back. Men are idiots. If you want him back, pretend you've moved on and got a new fella, if he thinks he's lost you he'll be all over you, i guarantee. If he thinks you're moping around cut up over him he'll just feel all smug that he's got somebody waiting around for him, show him who's boss. The only thing is, after all that, do you really want a guy like that, that plays games, you're better off without him
    i wouldnt bother , only cus more than likely, you're gonna make a fool of yourself. IF he was interested in having you back, you'd KNOW it.


    Dont read so much into every little flirtatious behavior as it being he wants you back. Again, if he wants you, he'll tell you, other than that, you may want to move on. If you were meant to be together, you'd never have split up. ....


    Statistics show, 75 percent of people who split up and get back together, ..only split up again. Let him go
    i say you give him the card and be nice to him if y'all were together that long it probably is still something between you i say if he really loves you he will know you still have feelings for him and he probably still does to,.
    I found a pretty good site for you...





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    TONS of information on how to win your ex back and I think it will really help you out.





    Hope it helps %26amp; Good luck!!!





    - Katie : )
    He is an ex for a reason.


    If he finished with you but still flirts he is playing on your emotion and will use you, if you finished with him, remind yourself why!
    Ask him if he'd like to spend Christmas with you.I don't believe in playing games.Whatever caused your breakup 6 months ago,should be addressed before you expect to get him back.
    Tell him how you truly feel. Let the cards fall where they may. Life is too short for games.
    just be really nice and sweet. try not to put how u feel about him in there. u never know if he just see's u as a friend now. so just be cordial

    How do i get my ex back???

    i need a fool-proof way to win an ex back that will NOT fail. if you have one, please tell me, cuz i need it right now. i am madly in love with my ex and neeeeeed to win her back somehow.


    please, someone help.How do i get my ex back???
    Stop by her place every day until she takes you back. Several times a day is better. And call her parents. ALL THE TIME.How do i get my ex back???
    Dude, you are desperate.....So, let time take it's course. Do not stalk her.... She is not an animal. No flowers, maybe an invite for coffee ( No mention of your past, But show some confidence!) But let me reiterate, DO NOT STALK HER! sooner or later, she may or may not come around... But in the meantime, start a new relationship, start fresh. Take it from me.. Shes not the only sand at the ''beach''.
    don't act keen! be nice and funny and hang out with her and be ';mates


    '; but pretend your not interested but just do little things that make her totally unsure ... hard to get wins every time and if all else fails you will still have a good friend and a whole lot of confidence!
    They're an ex for a reason.





    If you must force the issue, all you can do is lay it all out there and put yourself and heart on the line. Everything else is up to them.
    No clue how you ppl separated; as it wud have been of help to answer.


    Anyways, go ahead, buy some flowers and chocolates and tell her that you want her back.
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    Figure out what really drives her and what she needs.
    Tell Him/Her You want them Back.


    Don't Try To Make Him/Her Jealous. He Or She Would hate you for That.
    Just put it out there. And from their reaction you'll know what to do.
    lick her nose 3 times a day and then sleep in her mums bed XD

    Have you and an ex fallen back in love after a no contact, never want to see you or hear from you again state?

    If you have (please don't answer unless you and your ex DID fall back in love, thx), how long were you apart? How long had you two not spoken? What got you talking again? Who started the communication to get back together? Who dumped who to begin with? Basically, just give detail where you can. Thank you all so much!Have you and an ex fallen back in love after a no contact, never want to see you or hear from you again state?
    I'm met him in a party were in love 4 basically 10 months, can say too much in love. We broke after tat, he dumped me, after 2months he rang me, said he loves me but I said im nt interested becoz I can't trust whoz decisions kep changin abt me, we didn't speak after tat with him and lost trust in love ofcourse, we may met somewhere at some point bt we vl b nthn bt strangers...... Tatz itHave you and an ex fallen back in love after a no contact, never want to see you or hear from you again state?
    Yes and it was a horrible mistake. I dated a man for 2 years, we broke up and stupidly, I initiated contact with him after a year apart. He was so rude to me on the phone when I called but still wanted me back. I ended up moving in with him and what followed was the worst 6 years of my life.





    It seemed all he wanted was revenge because I had broken up with him before. He verbally and physically abused me for 6 years and I let him. Finally he came home from work one day and threw me out on the street.





    My point in telling you this story is before you get back together with your ex, make sure that you have worked out your past problems and he has moved on from them or it will be hell for you.
    After 2 years of not speaking but on seeing each other only in passing, it started out as a comment! Late night at a 24 hour food store, we were standing in the same check out line but didn't say a word to each other. She had left and got into her car to leave, but waited until I came out of the store to say something as she drove by. Weeks later she had stopped by my house to talk, then a month or so later asked me to house sit. When she came back, she asked me to stay a few nights. But soon after that, she just told me I should just come home. Soooo! After 2 years she said something to me, and me sitting down to hear what she had to say. But she was the one who had told me to leave over something that wasn't my fault, every 2 years!
    We lived together for 3 years. Last couple month of it we were fighting and decided that I need to move out. I did 5 weeks ago. In a week of leaving by myself I could not handle it and on my emoitons told him that Im breaking up with him. I did not want to do that. I love him so much, and I know he does too. In a week of no contact I went to him and told him that Im sorry and want to try to work things out. Its been 4 weeks since we do talk and hang out. Dating basiclly. Its been great. WE know that we love each other. He is very mad that I broke up with him so we are kind of friends now. But I spent all last week at our place (now his) and he was not letting me leave. Dont know whats going to happened after that. I know we are in love after 3 years and its great!





    Best of luck to you! Just know if you guys meant to be you def will be. Just put what you have out there and if it gets back to you- its yours.
    My first love came back into my life after 20 years. He found me online


    that was 5 years ago. I had to move and I thought he would stay


    in touch. I got a letter from him telling me. He was in love and going to get married. And I should not come and see him.So I was hurt.


    We still love each other but things are not the same.
    we dated for a year and a half...then broke up for three months without contact....and i called him on his bday and we got back into it!

    How can I get my ex back to go out with me again?

    She doesn't believe me when I say it will be different and thinks it would only stay that way for a week.How can I get my ex back to go out with me again?
    well, are you seriously willing to change for her? if so sit her down face to face and really tell her how you feel. let her know it will be different, and make sure its in person and not over texting or something, that will make it more real.How can I get my ex back to go out with me again?
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    prove that it will b different, but u have to admit that guys usually say that and never really mean it, not saying that u don't mean it tho, but i think u should try to make it up to her as well as u can and prove to her that u did change and u truly do like or evan love her..... need any ideas to prove to her????? e-mail me if u do





    u sound like a great guy and im sure u'll prove it to her one way or another!!!!
    i am trying to figure out what went wrong ...





    but make sure u dont ask her that





    and try urself to figure it out





    and make sure u prove to her that this time it is for real





    show her for real how different u r and that it is going to continue forever





    i recommend reading more about this and be patient





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    good luck
    you have to prove yourself to her. and mabye shes just over you? or make her jealous. that always works on girls. ask her one more time and if she makes an excuse be like well okay whatever you say then start flirting with other girls deliberately in front of her and play hard to get or something. works, im tellin you
    i found it hard to talk to my ex again - i bought this book a few weeks ago: http://www.my-linker.com/hop/breakuppeb


    and it helped me start talking to him again. things are going ok... i'm still using the advice to work out how to eventually get back to a relationship.


    It might help you too.
    Being persistent, you need to prove that you will change and it will be different. 2nd chances should be given, just dont screw it up.
    Prove it to her with you actions on a day to day basis, that you have changed.
    Try inviting her out on a date somewhere and say you'll pay for it.

    How do i get my ex back?

    Me and my ex went out for a year and 2 months with a few breakups in between, im so in love with him but i dont like how he ignores me alot and my friends got me to break up with him ';for good'; and now i really want him back but he doesn't have a fone or computer rite now!! What should I do?? Please help!!How do i get my ex back?
    First of all, you should definitely give him space and not push him to get back with you. Once you take about a month from not initiating contact with him, try initiating casual conversation with him, and make it positive.





    Just don't keep on pushing him to get back with you.





    For more tips on how to get back with him, check out http://exgetbacktogetherblog.com/How do i get my ex back?
    buy him a cell send it over to his adress and then call;)


    worked for me..but brokeup again..
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