What are the best things to say, to get an ex back?

Weeeell basically i had a lovely girlfriend a while ago, but we broke up, but since then we have been chatting all the time, (every night) for ages and ages, and now i just want to know how i can sway her away from the whole 'friends' thing more to the more popular 'boyfriend' thing..





Or actually if thats just not possible than let me know. I'm gonna call a spade a spade, and thats that i quite clearly still love her, and i think she knows that, and although we have so much fun, i think she doesn't like me in that way... Pathetic i know, to be honest i never thought i would find myself in a situation like this... but oh well here i am.. and can anyone help me with anything good to say...





Its kinda a big deal to me... thanks so muchWhat are the best things to say, to get an ex back?
Shes keeping you close for a reason. And if she still loves you, you'll know, BUT if it's just a comfort thing, than she's being selfish. And you shouldnt hurt yourself like that.


Breaking up is so hard, it sucks, but either you try to win her back before someone else steals her away from you, tell her how much she means to you, remind her of all the good times you had, make her want you too.


OR if thats not what she wants, forget about her. You need to let her go, otherwise it'll hurt to much being ';the friend'; who watches her with other guys.


The decisions up to you, but play it by ear, if you cant read her, TALK TO HER.. and go from there.





Good luck :):):)What are the best things to say, to get an ex back?
Honestly, it depends a lot on why you broke up in the first place. If you hurt her, she may not be as receptive to another go around with you...if she broke up with you or hurt you in some way then you might question how much she actually cares for your feelings.





But the only wrong thing is do nothing. Spend some time together and be honest with her...the worst she can do is say no, and then you can start to move on.
Apart from saying `I still love you you know` and `If I had my way, we`d get back together tomorrow`....I can`t see what else you can do.








But these two remarks would give her an opening, and her response would give you a clue if there is a chance.


If she doesn`t want to get back with you, she will just give that little non-commital laugh, that girls do when they don`t want to say anything.
just tell her ,you had a dream she was a nun you were a monk. Simply meaning that if you guys can't be together then you can't be with anyone else.
can i please have the past back pretty please