Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How to get an ex back?

ok my **** is weird me and my ex have know each other for like a year and half but only dated for like 2 months i seemed good but she cheated on me like in month one she kissed one of my fromer friend and we broke up after she promised to change beg and plead i was like ok for some reason i could not forget so one day over the phone i brought it up and she broke up with me i have tried to get her back by begging and pleading (wrong move) but she was like no contact no friendship i didnt listen but i did stop for like two weeks wen i texted her again she talked backed for a couple hours and i ****** up and kept texting her now she has changed her number i have stoped trying to contact her delated everthying from myspace could anything happen between us again or not wut do you think? help!!How to get an ex back?
an ex is an ex. its like past. Past is past. once its over, its over. Why do dwell on her over and over again when every time you tried to get and win her back, you'll gonna be hurt too. Yah..love is there. there's no question for that. But sometimes love is not enough to make the relationship healthy to stay. She seems to be a childish girl don't know what she really want. You deserve someone better than her. Let her play her games. You should look for a woman not a girl.





Gud luckHow to get an ex back?
Move on.


Get an education.


Learn to spell.


Learn to communicate in clear manner.
you both f**ked up ...





... its done ....., over .... get over it!





=).. good luck
Right now, you need to give her some time and space. Furthermore, you also need this time to seriously think and heal from what she did to you. I, too, cheated on my ex and we both made the situation worse by trying to stay and work things out. If you keep bringing up the past, then that destroys any thought of the future. While she is away from you, you need to take this time to forgive and forget. And if in the future, you all do get back together, then because you all have been apart, that will make your relationship stronger. But for now, just chill... Talk to some other girls if you have to but for now, just let her go.
She realizes that you two have issues. Yes she cheated, and though you forgave her....you won't forget! She doesn't want to spend the rest of her life with this being thrown in her face all the time. It's better to leave that alone and move on, because it will happen again, and though you don't realize it, you still have it burned in you. No fault of yours, but people have to realize, when they are forgiven for cheating, it is NEVER forgotten. That's why it would be impossible to have anything with her. You haven't let it go. You carry baggage about the situation. She probably already carries the guilt, but you won't EVER let her forget it. It is hard to stay with someone after cheating, because the person who forgives, thinks it love and they want to keep that comfort zone. The thought of her disrespecting you and your relationship has not made you lose your self love, self esteem or the man you are. It has however shaken your confidence in yourself to realize that you deserve someone that will do all that and more for you. Her love evidently isn't as strong as yours and strong enough not to cheat. She is politely shutting you down. Please graciously except that for your own sake. She means you no good, now, or in the future. Don't force it. She's not your blessing. OK?
you deserve better move on and show her you can get better

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