How to get an ex back?

we were together for a good deal of senior year of high school, that summer, and into college (she was about an hour and a half away). she broke it up because of some miscommunication about her hanging out with a guy (long story short i wasnt mad about that, but thats what it seemed like). so she said she felt that i didnt trust her. well its been like 5 months and we hardly talked and didnt see eachother at all. but i just contacted her on the internet a couple days ago and we've been catching up and its been very friendly. i miss her and i know she misses me too, because she had aharder time with the breaku than me. how do i get her back?How to get an ex back?
Let her know you are sorry about the fight. You would have done things differently if you had known it was going to sepparate you.





Explain that you would like to give it another try if she is willing. Send her an actual card in the mail. Girls love stuff they can hold in their hands.





Ask if you can start over, take her out for dinner. Let her know you always want her to be happy, so of course she can keep her friends. Just to prevent any misunderstandings you want to let her know exactly what made you feel defensive, and ask her for ideas on how to work around that in the future.





My husband and I both have friends of the opposite sex, but we both agree it is inappropriate to go over to their home and be alone with them. Anything else is fine though: Going out to a movie, cool. Dinner at a public place, sure. Drinks as a group, sounds fun. But they need to communicate before they go.





Something simple like, ';I'm planning to go out with my friend from college to catch up on Thurday. I't probably just be a few hours, is that cool?'; Gives him a chance to know what's going on. I am happy to meet him halfway, mainly because I would freak out if the shoe was on the other foot.





Good Luck!How to get an ex back?
If it is meant to be... the reconnection will happen naturally.





Since she was the one who initiated the break up, then you should become more irresistible to her.


Don't always be available, date other people. If no one else is attracted to you then why should she be.


NO one wants, a person that no one else is attracted to.
make her understand that you will anything you can to avoid her getting hurt again. because she might just be scared of getting back with you because she thinks it will just go the same way. it is known to be unlikely that it works in a relationship with someone who is an ex.
tell her that you love her and miss her. its as simple as that. but it might take her some time to get back in the groove and if she really does miss you like she says then she will be up for it... just talk to her and let her know whats going on in your head :)
Take your time, talk more and see where things go. Be patient and see where things take you.
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take it slow, and go up to visit her.
Talk to her and put the ball in her court instead of trying to force something. Since she thinks there's a trust issue ask her:


1. Do you think there is any possibility we might be able to try to have a relationship again in the future?


If she says ';no'; then end of discussion. you'll have to reconcile yourself with just being friends. If she says ';yes'; then still take it slow and ask her a few more questions:


2. What do you think it would take for that to happen?


If she says something like rebuilding trust then ask her


3. What would it take to convince you that I do trust you, because I really do and the entire situation from my perspective was a big misunderstanding?


4. Explain that you would be willing to work on being friends and on the other things she says would have to happen to open up the possibility for a relationship.


5. Ask her if its possible to revisit this conversation again and talk about some concrete and practical things that you (yourself and both of you) can do to move forward.





Don't put words in her mouth, pretend to know how she feels or what she wants, or play the blame game. Be willing, if she asks, to say what you want, but first see what she wants because you don't want to push to hard by telling her you want a relationship if she's just settling back into the idea of being friends.





So, see where she is at, be sensitive to that, and then be willing to come alongside where she is at so that you two can move forward together.





Best of Luck!

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