How to get my ex back? ?

Me and my ex were together for 2 years and finished 6 months ago but have still been out with each other and stayed in touch (whether we were on good terms or bad terms) and he still flirts now but this christmas is just going to be so weird without him. I was thinking about sending him a christmas card, but what to put inside? Should I tell him how I feel but maybe that would just push him away coming on too strong? Or should I just try to be nice? Any suggestions on what to say would be really helpful :) and no nasty answers please.How to get my ex back? ?
i was in your situation this time last year so id say yes get him a card dont say to much in it just wish him a lovely xmas no i wouldnt put how you feel unless your really sure hed want to get back together otherwise hel be put of short and sweet is your best bet hope all works out for you have a lovely xmas whatever happens yes 2 years together will be hard this xmas without him we got back together a week before but he wasnt my b/f he was my husband so all the bestHow to get my ex back? ?
Well, I think you should just be nice. Guys do not like their ex-girlfriend crawling back to them. The harsh truth is men never take back a woman when they are done with it. Best to pretend nothing happened and you do not care at all. And yes, pretend that you do not care about him at all otherwise he will push away more and your friends will start telling you to get over him and all those useless things that you do not wish to hear..
This sounds like a fairly light carefree relationship that isn't really what I'd term romantic right now however I do see potential for possibly something more in the near future, with that said, I would keep things in the here and now, so lean more into where you both are today without being to forward, in other words be nice and caring in a simple way, most men like simplicity, as they tend to get distracted with to many words, and sometimes it only takes a few words to really make your point, so my advise is simple, keep it simple.
Well i always used to tell my exes how i felt, and they always completely rejected me, and then as soon as i moved on and got a new boyfriend they had a sudden change of heart and wanted me back. Men are idiots. If you want him back, pretend you've moved on and got a new fella, if he thinks he's lost you he'll be all over you, i guarantee. If he thinks you're moping around cut up over him he'll just feel all smug that he's got somebody waiting around for him, show him who's boss. The only thing is, after all that, do you really want a guy like that, that plays games, you're better off without him
i wouldnt bother , only cus more than likely, you're gonna make a fool of yourself. IF he was interested in having you back, you'd KNOW it.


Dont read so much into every little flirtatious behavior as it being he wants you back. Again, if he wants you, he'll tell you, other than that, you may want to move on. If you were meant to be together, you'd never have split up. ....


Statistics show, 75 percent of people who split up and get back together, ..only split up again. Let him go
i say you give him the card and be nice to him if y'all were together that long it probably is still something between you i say if he really loves you he will know you still have feelings for him and he probably still does to,.
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He is an ex for a reason.


If he finished with you but still flirts he is playing on your emotion and will use you, if you finished with him, remind yourself why!
Ask him if he'd like to spend Christmas with you.I don't believe in playing games.Whatever caused your breakup 6 months ago,should be addressed before you expect to get him back.
Tell him how you truly feel. Let the cards fall where they may. Life is too short for games.
just be really nice and sweet. try not to put how u feel about him in there. u never know if he just see's u as a friend now. so just be cordial