How to win back Ex girlfriend?

My gf and i broke up because she fell back in love with her ex (he abused her, threatened to rape/kill her).





She wants to get back with him in hopes he'll be like he was for the first month they were dating.





They went out for 19 months.





Then i dated her, she says that i was the best bf shes ever had. I treat her so well, she says that she was the happiest with me over everyone else she's dated, but she loves him more apparently. We only dated for about 60 days, i want to get back with her more than anything.





She wants to be ';friends with benefits';, and i know every guy would be like ';omg thats awesome';. But i want her, i want her to my gf again.





Someone please gimme a way to win her back.How to win back Ex girlfriend?
wow, thats so selfish.... she cant just dump u then expect 2 still get some from you. tell her no! and maybe she will get back with u? its worth a try... being friends with benefits will not bring her back. shes getting exactly what she wants. my guess is that she probably means it when she says ur the best bf ever, but she's probably so addicted to her ex, she just cant let go... goodluck xxHow to win back Ex girlfriend?
Tell her ''I don't want him hurtin my girl'' see what her reaction is .
You have to realize is when ppl are in love with someone else, there is nothing humanly possible you can do to steal the person's heart away from that person. What you NEED to do is tell her that she doesn't need that jerk and to leave him well alone before she ends up dead. Love does not hurt nor is it death. If she decides to listen to you, don't pressure her to be with you because although he may be a jerk to you and everyone else, he's not a jerk to in her mind. Give her some time to get over this clown and when she's ready and in her right mind, she will come back to you. Timing is very important in anything. And, sometimes time is what we tend to forget about when it comes to anything in life including love. If the timing is off, the relationship or circumstance will be off. Many ppl need some room to grow and mature, and that's what your ex-girlfriend needs. When she finally wakes up and realize how good you've been to her, she'll be right back in your arms if it's meant to be.