My boyfriend broke up with me 2 days before Christmas. He says he is not happy with me, and we are not meant to be. I know he loves me, and he even said he still does, but it's somthing he has to do.
We met on Jan 1st to talk and swap things. I wrote him a heartfelt letter and read it to him. He really had no emotion at all. I totally ruined my chances with him because I begged for him to not leave me, but I felt that it was the last chance I would ever see/talk to him at all. I was devastated.
We agreed to be friends, but i told him i just dont know if i can do that.
I have been really calm about everything lately, we casually talk on aim and hes actually pretty nice to me. But then yesterday somthing was really bothering me, so I brought it up. He was fine with the first statement, but when I said somthing else he totally ignored what I said. I feel that I just ruined my chances of ever talking to him again! I went ahead and apologized over message and I told him that I agree with the breakup, i know it's for the best. I even went to say that I had some good news that I would like to share with him sometime...(which I thought would spark interest).
But he didnt respond to the message. So then I said '; Well im going to get off here, have a good day'; :). I waited a minute and still no response. Now I feel completely stupid!
Did I ruin my chances of getting him back with that message I sent him? What do I do know? Do i just totally ignore him and wait to see if he ever says anything? Now I feel that I lost all hope, I know we are meant to be together, and we were even getting along this past weekend...what the heck do I do know? All hope is gone!
Have any of you went through breakups and got your ex back? If so, HOW?How do I get an Ex Boyfriend Back?
I know it's not what you want to hear, but if you both agreed to be friends, then that's all he wants to be even if he says he still loves you, he broke up with you for a reason and begging for him not to leave you is the most unattractive thing you can do to a boy :/
iv been there, it hurts, but in time you'll get over it
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