How do you get an ex-girlfriend back?

females how do I get a my ex-back. I didn't give her attention but I really love her. I want her back so bad. Is it better to give her room or chase her. My ex is with someone else and has been for the last 5 months she tells me I'm the one who makes her laugh and she feels comfortable with but things are complicated because someone else is involved what can I do I really love he and made a mistake. I don't understand wy she would get with someone else so fast after we broke up. we were together for 9 years How do you get an ex-girlfriend back?
The most important part to remember right now,is are you absolutely sure you want to go down that road of reclaiming your ex girlfriend back.





If you do... then the first thing you need to do '; And this may seem counter productive'; Is to try and calm your emotions right now, and whatever you do at this state ';Do not constantly try and contact her right now or text a her a zillion times'; this is a major turn off. And makes you look quite desperate and being desperate is not an attractive quality.





You both need this time to sort through whatever it is that created this mess in your relationship. But, if you allow some time to pass without any contact, your chances of getting back together are much greater. You must give them sometime to miss you!How do you get an ex-girlfriend back?
Well, you have to start hanging out with her again if u don't already. Then u ask one of her bff's if she still has feelings for u. If so ask her out again. If she says no don't be depressed be confident that u will find another girl.
look at why you broke up


if the reasons were purely bc of her behavior, has she changed??


if the reasons were bc you messed up then you have to show her you've changed


this guy is just a rebound, i doubt she is madly in love with him





slowly put yourself back in her life