So my ex and I have been trying to figure things out and we broke up mainly because we fought a lot.And she wanted me to fix my ';anger'; which I have but its hard because shes busy a lot. How do I show her that I guess have changed? She gave me till Aug till she makes her decision weather she wants to be with me or not. We text but rarely mostly because shes busy but she does text me on her free time. Any suggestions? I love her a lot too :) and I would like to get her back the right way but letting her know that I won't fight with her anymore.How do I win an ex back?
There are some details that you left out that would have been helpful. Such as how long you dated. Also, if your “anger” issues were just verbal or if they were physical. If they were physically harmful to her, then you need to just let her go. You also did not specify how you addressed your “anger”. Did you get therapy?
There is some illogic to your ex-girlfriend’s rationale. There is no way she can tell if you changed unless you have an opportunity to demonstrate that you have changed. I would point that out to her. And frankly, no matter how busy you are, you make time for people you love and care about. So, if she isn’t giving you the time of day and you have a deadline that is fast approaching, she might very well be testing the waters with a new relationship and just keeping you hanging as back-up in case the new relationship doesn’t work out. If you ex really wants to win you back, she wouldn’t be setting you up for failure. If she wanted you to succeed she would give you specific things she wanted to you to do to show her you have changed and win her back. And if you don’t know, ask her to give you a list.
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