Monday, August 16, 2010

Is it possible to get an ex back after some time?

What I mean is there's this certain ex gf of mine who in our hearts way down deep we have this ESP connection. Call me crazy but I just know and can feel she's still got some love there as a friend mind you but with the possibility of more maybe. Thing is she's just come out of a bad relationship with a guy who's ten years older, (she dumped him fyi and some how I just know again and ESP thing), two times divorced, dad of four soon to be unfortunately because they did sleep together 5 and now she's like on this ARG attitude that wants nada to do with men certain men that is. I've just recently via her ESP, checking up on her as a friend and myspace found this out in the past 3 weeks. At first she didn't accept the friendship offer nor did she reject it or block me so that was cool and I was able to send her a few hey long time no see dear friend how are you praying for you care bout you emails. Well I dunno what I did because I'd stopped as I'd promised her and she just all the sudden blocks me on her myspace. Now mind you I've backed off. I don't think it's out of hatred or anything it's just as I've said she doesn't really want anything to do with men in general right now. Poor girl. Thing is deep down I still hear her ESP calling me and saying don't give up just give it time, pray, and be patient, yet on the surface it seems as if she absolutely hates my guts but why? Any ways question is here why am I suddenly feeling more turned towards her in love and affection even as a friend who fyi still has yet to meet her in person our friendship and bf gf thing in the past was long distance but why am I feeling so friendly and loving towards her all the sudden? What's going on? Could this be fate bringing us back together? No I'm not the rescue a damsal in distress type of guy but I won't lie I did and do still love that girl as a dear friend and there's always hope. I know this seems strange but that ESP in her don't lie. And I know it'd freak her out if she knew a lot of the stuff I do know that she hasn't told a living soul yet. What am I freaking psychic here? Any ways even if I do find another MRS. right I just want her to know my friendship is open and I am praying. The poor girl is having his baby and all other sorts of crap to deal with last thing she needs is her dear friend slash ex bf I'm one of 4 at least bugging her right? So what's a guy to do here?Is it possible to get an ex back after some time?
Don't become obsessed with getting her back, because if it doesn't happen, then you'll be a wreck.





But - if it's any comfort to you, yes, people can get back together after long periods of time. My current boyfriend for example, I dated over 2 years ago and we were very much in love. We broke up due to him having to move. I ended up dating other guys, and then after about 2 years went by, he called me, and everyone just worked out perfectly. We've been back together for almost a year now and I plan to move in with him this June.





When he called I had just gotten out of an abusive relationship. His patience to stick around for a month until I was ready to date him showed me how much commitment he had towards me.





So, what I'm getting at is. If she allows you to be there for her, then it could work out. If she pushes you away, then let her know you're there, but don't make her your only option.

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