How do you get an ex back when they say they don't love you anymore?

a few weeks ago, my girlfriend and i broke up after like 2 and a half years and now she claims that she doesn't love me anymore. I don't know if she actually feels that way or maybe because I'm not giving her space cause we are friends. and shes always hanging out with my best friend now and my best friend doesnt hang out with me that much anymore. its been about 3 weeks since ive seen him outside of school besides with my ex. i love her so much and i just want to know how i can get her backHow do you get an ex back when they say they don't love you anymore?
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Winning back your ex girlfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.





Here are some steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:





Don't Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together





You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!





You're only shot at getting her back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.





But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.





So don't ignore someone's texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.


You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her.








Don't Be Jealous





Listen to me ...SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It's ok if it bothers you, but don't let it show and don't call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don't have any right to tell her what to do.


If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.





Be Flexible





Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. It's better to be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.





These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them...).





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all the bestHow do you get an ex back when they say they don't love you anymore?
Well, if she doesn't love you, she doesn't love you.





Would you rather have a girlfriend that loves you, or a girlfriend pretending to love you? Wouldn't you rather her love you.





Think about why you broke up. Then think, do you really want to put yourself through that again?
I'm a girl, and I'm in the exact same position you are in right now... I think that for the both of us:


If we love the one we were with So much... then try to get him/her back. Talk to her as much as you can ( without annoying her) and just go with the flow. If she loves you, she will take you back. Relationships are god damn complicated!! aha, good luck... Answer mine!! ( The URL is in the source box)
I think she's dating your best friend, that's why your best friend is not hanging out with you out of guilt. I know it's hard, but let her go. If she loves you, she WILL come back to you. If not, you WILL find someone else.
If she wants ';space'; tell her to go be an astronaut.





So she doesn't love you anymore, heh? Well tough. You can't MAKE her love you, it's not something you can reason or something people choose. There's no other way for you other than ACCEPT she's no longer attracted to you. Maybe you're a pushover, maybe you keep around her all the time, maybe you don't have a ';drive'; or ambition. Who cares. She has painted a negative image about you and nothing short of the intervention of the Almighty will change that image she has of you (and even then it won't happen, because of something called ';free will';).





So the question is: why do you want her back? Because you ';love'; her? Well, it doesn't change the fact that 1) She no longer ';loves'; you; and 2) You can't make people ';love'; you.





So, suck it up, BE A MAN ABOUT IT and move on with your life. Surely you've turned down other girls because you had a girlfriend at that time. I'm not suggesting you start desperately going after those girls (that's just creepy) but if they had a good image of you in the past, most likely they (and your male friends) can put a good word on you and help you hook up with yet OTHER girls.