we were in love she still loves me i just had been a horrible boyfriend she says she needs space but tday i wrote her a letter i didn't plan to have sex with her but it happened and were still not together. how can giving her space help me i know you girls know the answer. so please help me. I love her with all my heart I've changed im so much nicer ive found hrist and ive been hitting the gym.She says she needs space. I need help on who to get an ex back,?
Hi buddy
Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
Here are few steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don't Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together
You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You're only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don't ignore her texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her.
Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go
You must understand that ...SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It's ok if it bothers you, but don't let it show and don't call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don't have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Being Flexible Is Very Important
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Rather be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn't take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them...).
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I hope that you will get your ex girlfriend back soon!She says she needs space. I need help on who to get an ex back,?
Well depending on how bad a boyfriend you were, the best way to go about it would just to be to give her, her space, and try to show her that you've changed, without becoming a creepy stalker or crazy ex boyfriend. Tell that you've found christ, and that you've been trying to better yourself, with religion, and the gym. Other then that I guess the best advice would be to not become overbearing, and suffocating, as you attempt to get her to come back to you.
Unfortunately sometimes people do so much damage that it is irreparable and if you say that you were horrible to her, like what happens with most people, she probably think that you will never change.
People often go back and sleep with their ex's but not because they still want to BE with them, only because after being in a relationship, its hard to accept the fact that you are on your own and you crave that closeness of being with someone.
She may forgive you but seriously - you need to let her call the shots.
I need space is girl speak for I don't want you any more and I have found a better guy to replace your ***. sorry but it's true. Good time to move on to something better.
Tread lightly, one mistake and she's gone. You should go check this out for free coaching to get your ex back:
http://how-to-get-an-ex-back.com/
it's over, ex means extended. you are over.
ok jk you could win her back by telling her something you already know. i have no idea.
I soooooooo beleeeeeeeev you!
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