How do you stay sane when you want an ex back and are giving them space, but they flirt with other people?

How do you handle that? It hurts so much to see him flirt with other girls. I get so jealous, angry, and depressed. I'm hoping that space and time will make him realize he misses me.How do you stay sane when you want an ex back and are giving them space, but they flirt with other people?
Can I just tell you that I am in the EXACT same position. My boyfriend and I broke up 2 months ago. I was over him for awhile until school started and I saw him again...and now, I've heard that he likes this other girl! (Who just happens to be in 3 of my classes...) He will text me occasionally, but I ALWAYS want to talk to him and its so hard not to...I have found that not talking does help....we didn't talk or see each other for 2 weeks and he called me.


This also sucks...because while your trying to get over it (and its extremely hard) they have it easy because they can just flirt with the other girls to forget about you...guys are truly jerks.


I really need someone to talk to about this...so if you wanted to, you can email me...?How do you stay sane when you want an ex back and are giving them space, but they flirt with other people?
Hey there again, I remember I answered one of your other questions. Its really lots of much pain to feel. I also went through this as well in my relationship as well. Even while when i was still with her in a relationship she still had flirted with other guys. Its really depressing... Even to see you go through this as well. I feel awfully bad for you, I don't know why people do this. But the world is full of people. Right now i'm single and happy. I'll pay more attention into school if I were you, or in your job. Right now I really doubt I have time for girls. Well I do but school makes me have less responsablitie for girls right now.





I know how you feel, but you know the more your ex do this, the more he'll probably get himself in more trouble really. Every situation for people always makes a change in them. Its sorta like the saying ';Adversity builds character'; Love is patien and also a big change in life. Some times I ask myself do I want this change?





Lots of people went through this, even myself =)


I'll say dont even worry! It just takes time to get over it which is the tough part.





You should take some time and really spend a lot of quality time with your family like cousins or best friends. I think finding someone new may heal your wounds. More you think of it, the bigger it gets. I mean when I got dumped I felt a big huge hole in my heart, and I thought no one other but her would fill it in. But now to think of it, there is soo much people out there, there is always someone out there that'll fill in that hole in my heart... I'm sure there is someone out there for you as well to fill in the hole! =]


I haven't found anyone yet myself but its all about time really ^_^
You need to try and keep your mind off it - avoid him for a while and try and occupy yourself with other activities. I know this is hard but if you keep busy you'll find that it'll become easier.





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