How to get an ex back?

I was someone I'm not when we started going out with him


I knowingly flirted with his friends(we weren't going out when i did)


I was blunt


and too straightforward.





We broke up and I regret acting different around him.We have been broken up for 1 month and haven't talked at all.It kills me not to talk to him because I liked him SO much.





I have done the whole ignoring him thing and pretending i don't care.Truth is I care allot.How do i get him back?How to get an ex back?
Ok well you have been abit vague with the situation - obviously it appears you were being quite insensitive to him. As stated, you were acting differently than your natural self and you did have a reputation for being flirtatious with his mates beforehand.





Ask yourself. Why did you act differently around him if you so much liked him? Once you truly answer that then you might be able to get him back. Call him or contact him in some way where you can really discuss it. Look I am not one to judge but apologize for your actions and be brave and let him know you really liked him. By ignoring him and pretending you don't care - it prevents him from approaching you.





Being open and tactfully honest NOT blunt will ensure you get him back. Not to analyse things too much - Were you seen as skanky when you flirted with his mates in the past. That could explain alot as to why he broke up with you. Define who you truly are and make sure your explanations are reasonable and fair.





Hope that helped