Allrite, here is some advice that may help. Discalimer: Things can be different with every person.....read this story to see how i did it then ill give tips.
Me and my ex were in love and dated 6 months, we drifted apart and she started liking this guy she dated 2 times in the past. She started dating him. He was still the jerk he always was even tho he said he changed and she thought he did. He still plays people cuz hes a heartless jerk. But he cheated on her after like a week and a half. Well after that happened we started talking more and slowly working things out. Well she barely had a connection with me or was attached to me and still kinda liked this Dante kid cuz shes more physically attracted to him than anything. Well she is dome with his crap she tries to stay away from him and shes back with me, we are closer than ever. We are pretending like we didnt break up for a month cuz we dont wanna start over and stuff....But things are pretty good with us. There has been a little drama and its been a little hard at a couple times cuz of Dante and stuff.....this Dante kid has been trying to get her to like him again and hes been a dick to her tho on and off....shes sick of him and basically he is causing drama by talking crap about me and trying to fite me, and she dont wanna see us fite. So she felt in the middle cuz of him....but I told him to back off and stop, shes no longer worried about it. She said she wants to be with me and ework things out with me and that this summer will be way better cuz we wont have to put up with the high school bs and im graduating and shell be in school still, itll make it easier cuz we wont be stuck in the same school with dumb drama. But she loves me again and its going really good and i love her....we learned things we need to change from the past to make it better.
TIPS:Don't give up, Don't be too pushy give them some space....in the mean time fix things about yerself like work out lose weight get a job get a car dress better (i did things like this and i feel way better and i lost 20 lbs. She used to feel like I was too needy but Im not anymore I learned to have a little independece), dont depend on her or NEED her, love her, be there for her, even if she doesn't like you that much just be there for her especially when other people aren't then shell realize you really care, work on things that maybe bothered her before, let things be on her terms until shes ready to commit, she needs space and she is the only person who can truly control that space so give it to her. Don't take things too fast when u get back together, have discussion on what things to change and just how u both feel about yer relationship and how you will handle different situations. One last tip, if you violate her space or things start to go wrong then back off and give her time to think (if you dont think about it and try not to care so much and to not worry and most likely things will turn out.)
It took alot of work to get my ex back, but that jerk is out of the picture, she loves me and wants to be with me and trusts me completely....even when things were really bad, they. If you wanna get someone back then dont give up, follow yer heart and u can listen to advice but go truly with what your heart wants you to.
I HOPE THIS HELPS!!!Need help getting an ex gf back?
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Gosh, this is a long story. I am not sure that I totally understand it.
See, all I can say is that last year my friend had a bad break up and then he could get her back using this:
http://www.get-your-ex-back.info
But, with your description and events, I don't know whether it helps (who knows, it might).
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