Trying to get an ex back?

i am still in love with my ex. she as put me through hell for the past month since we have been broken up. we were together for 2 years.she tells me that she is fine being single, but does think we can get back together sometime down the road. is there anything that can be do to speed up the process. im willing to wait for her but how long is to long? i mean ive been trying to court her like I did when we first started going out, but it really isn't having much of an affect. any suggestions, and has anyone been through this and come out successful?Trying to get an ex back?
Hi,





The best thing to do right now is back off a little.....Let her have some space and don't try to control her. If she wants to go out and have a good time let her do her thing.





In the meantime, you need to work on yourself. Get into shape, buy new clothes, get a new hairstyle.





Now start going out with your friends and having a good time. If you are going to be in the same place as your ex girlfriend, make sure that you talk to other women. Jealously is a powerful motivator.





Don't let yourself be a doormat and don't beg her to take you back. Just let things happen. It may not be as quick as you like it. But if you are patient it will happen.





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Good luck to you!Trying to get an ex back?
Don't appear needy. Don't have any contact for a little while go out with your friends . Do different things. After some time set up a meeting but don't appear needy. Be confident.
It seems as if you are in a rock and hard place. I think she is trying to test your love for her. I really do think so. Sometimes women will let you run after them to prove your love, but you are the one who should know her best since you both spent two years together. On the other hand, she may have already started a relationship with someone else and don鈥檛 want you to know. Is that an option? There is also a possibility that she just needs time to sort out her life. Apparently, you may not have reassured her that you have the same goals as she does in the past two years and that would be your task to prove to her that you want the best for her. So you don鈥檛 need to be too clingy.


She does not want that. She is seeking her independence from you and so she needs a little time. I would suggest giving her about 30 more days and then if no response write her a short note telling her how you feel about her without appearing desperate and let her know that you would love to talk 鈥?just talk so you can understand how she is really feeling. If you get an answer, that is your first indication that there is still some interest. Let her know that you would like to keep in contact with you whatever she decides. This will let her know that you care about her well being.


I highly recommend T.W. Jackson鈥檚, Magic of Making Up Guide at http://niche-resale.com/magicofmakingup.鈥?/a> that really gives you more in depth details on the nuances of breaking up and getting back together again.