How can I get my ex boyfriend back?

Im a male sophmore in high school, 16 years old and gay. (and please no posts about how being gay is wrong blah blah blah)


anyways, Early February i started dating this amazing guy who is very caring, hot, smart, etc. Before i started dating him i was a virgin, and we started having sex after a month of dating. He is a senior in high school and lately has been tied up with scholarships for college and other things to prepare for college. 8 days ago he broke up with me saying he doesn't give me enough attention (we saw each other at least 4 times a week after school), that he needs to focus on college, and that he doesnt feel the same about me like he used to. My problem is, is that 3 days before he broke up with me we had prom, and it was perfect. we even had sex afterward. and he told me he loved me so much the next day. What is really going on? i feel like there is something he isnt telling me or that i missed something... i handled the break up very well and only had a few moments where we clashed heads about the issue, and i even got him to confess that he broke up with me so that it will be easier for me when he goes to college and i wont have to go through the stress of it. but i already told him that i was willing to see him only once a week or two when hes in college, but then he said he doesnt like long distance relationships. Please help me with this.. i have been crying about this so much the last week, i want him back so badly and i know he still cares. (oh, and he tried to get me to have sex with him not even 4 days after we broke up) so basically he wants the sex without the emotional stuff.. i want the emotional stuff :/How can I get my ex boyfriend back?
gay is wrong blah blah blah.How can I get my ex boyfriend back?
Well Jon. Have you heard of the saying that ';people in hell want ice water';? That is what this relationship is about. You want something that he now seems unwilling to give. Maybe he needs time away to find out that you are really his soul mate. Maybe he is scared of having this relationship carry through college and having to explain it to other people. Maybe he wants to have sex with other guys as well and have you on the back burner in case he does not get laid as much as he would like. You know what you want and he knows what he wants and they don't seem to travel the same path now. You are going to have to think real hard about your relationship and how you want to proceed. There is really nothing you can do at this point. It is all up to him and you will have to live with whatever decision he makes. I really feel bad for you and hope that things turn out well for you in the end.
I mean honestly, I don't think you can. Don't take my answer too harshly, I just think from what you wrote he wants to explore other people in college. The best you can do is confront him about it all though.