What is up lately with everyone wanting to get their ex back?

If they wanted a relationship with this person , why did they break it off in the first place? Then they come in here and ask how do i get them back? Why? It is going to end up the same way again. If you put your hand on a hot burner on the stove it is going to burn you , no matter how many ways you try not to get burned you are always going to . Same way with a relationship , once the trust and love is gone , it is gone , Nothing anyone can do or say to get that spark back it is over an done and time to bury the bones .What is up lately with everyone wanting to get their ex back?
time does heal most wounds, and once the anger is over with, and it didn't work out with the new love, they often want what they had back because it wasn't greener on the other side of the fence.just depends on how the breakup happened and how badly one was hurt emotionally. but i think if u loved someone once that u could love them again.What is up lately with everyone wanting to get their ex back?
maybe they are lonely...sometimes when im lonely i think about taking my ex back, just to have him there. but then i remember all the stuff that made me leave him in the first place and i try to stay strong. it's harder for some than others though...
So many people always think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. When they learn that it isn't is when this happens.


The sad part is that people who are being abused actually live by this and stay in bad relationships when people in mostly wonderful relationships up and run! Should be the other way around.
Some people would rather go back to what they had than try to find something else, even if it wasn't all that great. But the problem with relationships, is there are two sides to the equation, if the other party isn't interested in reconciliation, you are dead in the water.
Sorry you're so bitter but you're wrong. That's not always the case. I'm in a relationship where we were broken up for a period of time and since we've been back together, it's better than it's ever been. Like the crazy first few months, but with a deeper understanding and connection.
it all depends on the scenario.





If the ex beat them and stole all their money, of course they are dumb to want them back.


If you left to pursue a career, and now want them back, then its different.


Sometimes people split up for stupid reasons and, then grow up.
Some people regret getting divorced even after they are remarried to someone else. The people who are trying to get their ex back probably made mistakes and that's why the relationship ended. They are hoping someone here can give them an answer that will fix the past.
but also remember, YOU CAN BREAK A BONE,BUT IT CAN HEAL PRETTY WELL, WITH THE PROPER NOURISHMENT AND CARE.
Tomorrow is 09/09/09. They need to get it done by then :)





Seriously, I agree. Weird.
I guess people are finding out the grass isn't greener on the other side
It's getting cold again.
Because they are dumb.
I would prefer to just move on!
I totally agree. I would have to have a lobotomy to want my ex back.