Should We Take An Ex Back Again?

Long story short, me and my ex dated for 7 months, he gave me a promise ring at 6months, then split. Because he was under stress. (so he says) He came back after christmas and then we dated for another 7 months and he out of nowheres says he doesn't want a gf.


So he writes me off again, his friend told me he tohught he was trying to get with another girl but she bailed on him.





So now he comes back again after 5 months this time, and says how he made his mistakes and he got with another women that was actually ended up being crazy and said he learned his lesson, and iam the best thing in his life. ANd how much he wants me and loves me etc...





So we started talking and hanged out. And he kept saying he wants to ask me out but doesnt want to be rejected. I told him i wasnt ready for that step. His crazy ex kept msgin him and he wanted to commit sucicde and i was really upset about it because he kept tellin me he was going to hurt himself. He finally changed his number and she stopped contacting him.


Then just 2 weeks after, he has a car accident in the snow, and he was fine, just alil sore, but no bruises or anything. He makes a huge deal out of it and says he doesnt want me after he called me to call his family about the accident. I got them, we went to the hospital...and than he hardly wanted to talk to me...just ignored me.





Then i findout he's hanging with the woman, not the guy, who called the cops to his accident scene. And he says he's repaying her. So i dont kno if they'll get otgether or not. But he had an accident before and his friend was there and he said he was repaying him too so he does drugs with him.





So now, i havent spoke to him in a few days because iam soo hurt by what he did. Iam always running to the hospital for him and he says it changes his life, and he's still the same guy...





What do you guys think? I really just need your personal opinions, and he says he might come back in the future. He's not sure yet...





My problem is..i dont kno why i go back to him, and i always think and hopes he changes, and it's hard to not be upset if he dates this girl just cuz she called the cops. There was other ppl there too though, and iam the one that made all the other phone calls. And the cops are the one that got him out of the car.





Iam just really stressed. Thankyou for your advice in advance.Should We Take An Ex Back Again?
Have some respect for yourself. You seem like a nice girl...someone who deserves better. You need to ask yourself, ';why would I want to date a guy who treats me like this?'; There's a deeper issue here which you haven't addressed. I suggest cutting all ties with him. Taking some time to yourself...gain some confidence, a back bone, and love for yourself. Once you're comfortable with who you are, then begin to think about what kind of guy would be best for you. This guy is not worth your time and effort anymore.





Hawk the promise ring, throw away all the pictures/mementos, delete his number/facebook/myspace account, and move on.Should We Take An Ex Back Again?
isnt it an abomination..